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On Taking A Chance: If Not Now, Then When?

Life is short and precious. It is constantly changing, we sometimes think we have all the time in the world so we take our time with chances.

We take our time with the time until one day we wake up and realize that it has slipped away, and the people we cared about never knew and we never truly shared our feelings that we should have shared.

Speak your mind. It sets you free and it helps you either move on or finally get what you have been asking for. 

Sometimes all you have to do is be honest with yourself first and then the truth will find its way in you.

So what?! So what you didn’t get what you have always desired.

So what if you cared a little more than you should, so what you didn’t know any better….so what?! 

If you’re not making mistakes often, you’re not learning and if you’re not learning, you’re not really growing.

Ask the hard questions. Ask yourself, ask the person who keeps sending you mixed signals, ask your parents, ask your boss, ask your friends, ask your ex. Ask burning questions. Don’t feel shy to have discussions to seek answers.

If you need answers then you need to be brave enough to ask the hard questions. The questions that can determine your future or change the course of your life.

Stop being hard on yourself. Expect more, love yourself a little more, forgive yourself more often and know your worth. 

Be aware of your true self or who you’re becoming. 

Be proud of your journey, of your scars, and your progress. Learn how to believe again, how to stand up again and how to take another leap of faith.

Take chances, make mistakes. That’s how you grow. Pain nourishes your courage. You have to fail in order to practice being brave.

 Don’t settle for living a life that doesn’t excite you, while you can’t go back and change the past, you can always carve your future.

You can choose which chances to take and which ones to give up, you can choose which chapters to rewrite and which ones to end.

If you don’t take a chance, you don’t stand a chance. 

You can choose which doors to reopen and which doors to close forever. 

You can always choose to take another chance, to give a second chance, to start over and to let chances guide you.

Sometimes all you need is one chance to change your life and you will never know what it is if you’re always taking the easy way out. 

Chances are always calling you, desperately waiting for you to answer.

Life is all about jumping off the cliff and building your wings on the way down.

Go out there Ladies ! Drop every fear and take every chance.