We get it alpha females are supposed to be strong, and smart mouth ladies. But deep down among the tough exterior and the no-nonsense attitude, you know you have feelings.
We look to our surroundings and inhale all that there is to this world, and we realize that though we are emotionally intelligent on hiding our feelings, we still have one of the most sensitive sites out there. And rather we may know it or not, there are signs that can tell people just what we are.
1. You literally never show emotion, but you're just concealing a rollercoaster of emotions.
You are the pro at masking them. But when you feel - whether good or bad energy you feel it strongly.
2. Your life plan wouldn't be complete unless you made a difference.
While other people's seem to be fragmented and simple - yours are full of helping the greater good. There are no boundaries to scenarios that draw you in and allow you to give to those who seem far off.
3. You've been told you are "sensitive" in moments people never thought you could be.
If someone's dog ends up running away, or a child loses her way in a store, you care with the greatest of convictions. Maybe not because you're sad, but because you can feel the distress in the heartbreak of situations.
4. You let your friend's problems become your own.
If someone is bothering one of your friends you are sure to confront them, but only after thinking thoroughly and clearly of all outcomes. And with a special attention not to hurt anyone who doesn't deserve it.
5. But sometimes, you get too ahead of yourself in defending your friends.
You can't but help if the words you might have used, might have been a little too demeaning or a little too rude in the process. You feel because you know what it is like to have walked in some people's shoes.
6. You care so deeply for everyone in your life.
All you want is for everyone in your life to be happy and cared for, and you're happy to help them at any time of the day.
7. You range from carefree to overwhelmed in a hot second.
You love complexity in your schedule, but you also don't mind simple things. Your simpleness is what shows that you feel so deeply, but sometimes everything you commit to can catch up to you.
8. You've experienced it all.
You struggled with depression, anxiety, and even loneliness which is what drives you to help those you come across no matter what.
9. You don't really know how to "let things go"...
Because if something is bothering you, rest assured will always clap back because cliche phrases can't stop you from feeling the way you do.
10. You can read people way too easily.
Sometimes you use that to your advantage, but most of the time you use that to level out the group you surround yourself with.
11. You are dependent to a fault.
You hate being late, you pay your bills ahead of time because you know that you and deadlines don't mix well. And you prefer showing up early because, in the end, you get more time to yourself and with those you would do anything for.
12. Change is a welcomed constant in your life.
You prefer the change, so you remove your boredom and figure out new adventures and sights to chase after. Your focus on new surroundings shows you take things in and apply them to who you are.
But no one side can dominate, because you know deep down they are equal. You know that your sensitivity is what draws people to you, and it is who you are. It is not something that needs fixing.
You know that to be an Alpha means to be a sensitive soul as well, and you are fine being just that:
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