Love is a beautiful thing, but what's the rush?
You're young and beautiful and free and you don't need to spend so much time searching for love, so cherish being single now, and focus on love later.
Love doesn't pay the bills, self-ambition does.
I mean, yeah you could find a rich man if you really wanted to, but where's the pride in that? Focusing on your goals and ambitions, furthering your career, that will get you far in life, so...
The only thing distracting you from your goals will be the occasional puppy passing by.
Sure, you can be in love and be successful at the same time. But, love requires effort, work and dedication; energy that you could be putting to use on reaching your goals first... well second because…
You really just gotta love you.
Spend time getting to know yourself. When you look in the mirror, who do you see staring back at you? What do you like to do? What makes you who you are?
If you can learn to appreciate who you are, you will also learn your value, your worth.
Which will sure come in handy with love later but in the mean time...
Spend all the time you want in figuring out exactly what you want.
Time exploring your desires and needs is priceless.
If you have an extremely large heart, you might accidentally put your desires on the back burner to please someone else. This may cause you to lose sight of what it is you really want.
‘You’ should be the main priority in your life so while you’re looking out for what’s best for you right now...
Make 'Miss Independent' the sound track to your life.
Kelly Clarkson's or Neyo's, either or will do. Just own your independence. Be the girl who doesn't need help from others, and damn sure doesn't need anything from a man.
And if your next love doesn't work out, you will still be standing there on your own two feet. You’ll be stronger then and understand that...
Dating is cyclical, it comes and goes.
Before we find our one true love, we usually have to go through a series of fuckboys and heartbreaks first.
There's plenty of that to go around, but your success as an individual can be permanent and when the time is right
Love will seek you out, not the other way around.
Your one true love will come along, and it will be amazing. But until then, why not focus on making a great future and bettering yourself?
Your perfect guy is coming. And when he finally shows up to sweep you off your feet, you'll be ready for him because you'll be able to offer him your best self.
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