She knows she’s not always the easiest to love and sometimes she’s tough to even be around, but please don’t give up on her. Being with the girl who constantly over thinks everything can be tricky, and she realizes that.
She knows deep down she loves with you every inch of her soul, but there are times she gets so caught up in her mind that she gets a bit lost.
And it's not your fault she feels this way. It is not what you are doing wrong or right.
It simply is she can't help but to think about everything in the way she does.
She can't help but ask the questions in her head, which always seem to be endless.
And she can't help but think about how things might end even if they are not headed in that direction.
Her mind constantly plays tricks on her and leaves her processing a million things at once. She keeps scratching her head wondering how someone could love her when she is in a constant cycle of uncertainty.
When you love her, she needs you to be confident in what she has. Give her room to dwell on what is happening right in front of her. Dare to be the person who remains open and who acts instead of putting extra doubt in her head.
When her mind races, be compassionate and try to understand even when you can't. Though you might not always understand what it is she’s dealing with, by you sharing and being open about your feelings it allows her to do the same.
Sometimes her mind is her worst enemy. Be determined to love her unconditionally. She, at times, might think she is undeserving of love, that someone out there is better for you than she is.
Help her understand that while she may have fears, they are not all that dictate her. And that you love her with an empathetic level of understanding. Sometimes she can't help but want to explode, sometimes she can't help feeling the way she does.
But, please, be patient with her as she processes everything that is surrounding her. Help her not by judging her, but loving her more each day.
Love her despite how many times she will overthink and over process. Please communicate to her what you need and allow her that ability to make mistakes. There will be times where she really doesn't get why you're mad or upset with her.
But that’s only because she’s trying to find meaning in everything you say, and everything you do. Sometimes just reminding her that there literally is no meaning behind your words is the key to keep her calm.
So please remain by her side. Be prepared to, at times, have her need you more than anyone else.
And most of all love her even when it gets too difficult to.She is a loyal person to the core, she justs need someone to pass some of that love to.
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