Being the girl who always puts herself last is exhausting. I constantly struggle to set my feelings aside and make sure everyone else is happy.
I can’t help it, that's just who I am.
People always try to see how far they can push others. And the truth is, they’ll keep pushing until you hit your breaking point. I’ve learned that the hard way.
Saying ‘no’ used to be hard for me because I never wanted to let anyone down. But it started to bite me in the ass and eventually I got tired of screwing myself over time and time again.
I'm always told that my heart’s too big for my own good and I know that's true. I care about everything and everyone way too much.
Other people’s problems magically become my own whether I like it or not. Their hardships affect me deeply and their triumphs put me in an amazing mood.
I instinctively live other people’s lives with them and sometimes I lose focus on my own.
I’ll put up with a lot, but I've learned to have zero tolerance for being used, lied to, put down, and manipulated.
Basically, there’s no room in my heart for other people’s bullshit.
I have no problem putting my life on hold to help people I love; my door is always open. But, in return, I expect to at the very least be treated like I’m valued. I won’t put up with anything less.
The minute I feel used by or unimportant to someone, I’m out.
I can easily see through fake people and have no shame in swiftly cutting them out. Other people’s bullshit attempts at getting what they want aren't something I'm willing to deal with.
I’ll always be the kind of girl who puts other people first, that's never going to change. What did change is who I consider worth helping and who I have no intention of dealing with ever again.
My heart may be big, but I've built high walls to guard it against fake people with shitty intentions.