"If you're going to stay with me, then stay. If you feel the need to leave, then stay gone. All I want from this point on from someone is consistency."
She does not ask for lavish gifts or expensive vacations. She is not asking for you to give then all your time and all of your money. She won't ask for much, really.
Consistency, though, is the one thing no one has ever given her and it's the one thing she's desperately been needing. There comes a point where she won't put up with mixed signals and mixed emotions anymore.
She respects herself enough to know when she's being played and she refuses to be a part of it.
She's not here to entertain anyone or be someone's toy to be used and used again. She knows her worth and refuses for anyone to treat her with less.
If her heart is not cared for properly, she will leave and not come back. Not because she didn't give him a chance, but because she's been down this road too many times.
She's tired of the constant wondering. If someone will text back or if they will flake on her again.
She only wants someone who will intend to keep her, not be with her only when it's convenient.
If you want this person, consistency is an every day choice.
It's waking up to the one you love and kissing them goodbye as you leave for work, even if you fought all night. It's still saying 'I love you' even when you're mad.
It's doing something as easy as the dishes before she gets home to remind them you care. It's never forgetting to make them feel appreciated and loved, every day. It's genuinely being interested in what she's saying and how she's doing,
It's being there for them when they need it the most. When her car is broken down and you're the only one she can call. When she's had an awful day and just needs someone to vent to over a pint of ice cream.
Consistency shows value in what you love.
Give her the one thing no one has ever given her. Show her you care.
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