It's taken me a long time to feel this way about myself.
I have gone through hell and back to feel confident with who I am and what I want and deserve in life.
I have had my heart broken and it has been harder every time to bounce back from it.
I love who I am becoming and who I want to be and I have finally accepted the fact that I do not need a man to be happy.
I do not need a man to love me, take care of me, or provide for me to be a successful, sufficient and happy human being.
What I want is to find a partner. I want to find a man who accepts me as I am and doesn't want to change me.
I have had too many guys come in and out of my life but on their way out they change me into someone I didn't want to be, but I did it because I wanted them to stay.
But now, I am done. I am done changing for anyone. I am done compromising what I want, to keep someone around, because I deserve better.
I deserve someone who loves me for who I am and doesn't want to change me a bit.
I deserve someone who loves that I don't need them and understand that a relationship is a bonus in life not a need thing like food and air.
I deserve someone who wants me as much as I want them and doesn't ever want me to need them.
But the biggest thing I deserve is a best friend I get to choose to spend the rest of my life with.
I am happy I have overcome my neediness for someone. I am blessed that I have realized what life is all about and I am blessed that I have finally fallen in love with myself.
I also look forward to hopefully finding someone who falls in love with me too.
My independence will never be threatened again and if you can't accept that, I'll tell you now... Goodbye.
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