I’m not the silent, submissive kind of girlfriend. I’m not the type to just sit back and not give a damn. And I’m definitely not here to be your arm candy or security blanket.
So if that’s what you’re looking for, you better stop right here.
I’m strong-minded, confrontational, and incredibly opinionated. I'm not passive or obedient, and I won't cater to your every whim. I won't fake interest in something just to like what you like.
I'm not going to follow you around or blindly agree with everything you say. I’ll fight you and challenge you every step of the way because that's who I am.
Why should I sacrifice everything that makes me who I am for you to feel better about yourself? The answer is - I shouldn't.
I will not put up with excuses.
Don’t lie or procrastinate. And please quit making up bullshit excuses for yourself. It’s just pathetic.
I won’t lie or sugar coat things.
The truth is, I’ve never been the type to just agree for the sake of agreeing. I will never just tell you what you want to hear, and I certainly won't go out of my way to stroke your bruised ego.
I will never be like your mother. I’m not going to baby you or clean up after you.
I expect you to have figured out how to be a responsible, grown adult. And if haven't, you probably aren’t man enough for me in the first place.
I have no problem with conflict, and I’ll hold my own in a fight. I won’t cry or run away if things get a little tough. I’m not going to apologize for things that aren’t my fault, and I won’t grovel.
I’ll own up to my own mistakes, but I won’t cover for yours.
I may be a bitch sometimes, but I’m real. I have a genuine heart, and I know who I am. If you can’t handle that, I’m clearly not the girl for you.
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