"Every girl deserves a guy that can make her heart forget why it was even broken." –Elizabeth Gilbert
I remember the days before I met the love of my life that I spent crying on the couch, sulking in sadness, wondering why I was never a priority to the guy who came before him.
I remember being in a crowd full of people and still feeling alone. I remember feeling less of myself because of one guy's lack of attention. I remember that overwhelming, all-consuming sadness and I sure as hell will never put myself in that position again.
And while it may have felt awful in the moment, I definitely learned something about life: if someone’s actions or words ever make you feel less than who you are, leave. You are never obligated to stay with someone, or live a life with someone who makes you question yourself.
It wasn't until I met my future husband and he helped me realize everything beautiful inside myself. I didn't change who I was but rather he recognized everything I couldn't even see in myself and brought it up to the surface.
Since the day I met him, he has made me feel the way every girl should feel in the arms of someone she loves.
To him, I am not a 'maybe,’ I’m not disposable or just a rental for the time being. I am the girl he's waited for and the girl of his dreams. I never felt the need to change who I was to make him love me more, I stayed true to myself and it was everything he was searching for.
I have never felt shaky or questioned our relationship because he has always valued me and made me his number one priority. He’s conscious of the words he speaks to me and has never hurt me but only lifted me higher rather than making me feel less than myself.
I've never been hurt by his words because he's always lifting me higher rather than making me feel less than myself. I've never cried because I never felt doubt or fear he's unfaithful.
Ladies, your future husband is out there. This guy for you exists and is out there just waiting to cross paths with you. Wherever you're at in your life, right at this moment, just know you are the girl of someone's dreams.
I'm sure it seems far from reach or maybe you thought you found that perfect match but now you're left heartbroken. But when negative thoughts, like why you 'weren't good enough', come creeping in just remember this:
You have everything inside you that someone has been desperately seeking.
Someone is out there that will find everything about you beautiful.
Your flaws won't be flaws but a reason to love you more.
You have a kind heart someone has been searching for.
You have the shade of eyes someone finds beautiful.
You have the crinkle in your nose that someone will find adorable.
You have the laugh someone will love to hear.
You have the selflessness that someone won't take for granted.
You have the kindness someone will appreciate.
You have the ambition someone will support.
You have the beauty that will captivate someone.
You have the intelligence someone will admire.
You have the presence someone who cherish.
You have the essence someone will value.
You have the hand that will perfectly fit into theirs.
I guarantee you, everything about you will fit perfectly with the person you're meant to be with. They will fit your mold.
There is a person designed for you. Someone who will put you first and make you feel like the woman you are.
This person is out there. Whatever the reason, fate just has just not brought you two together yet.
I assure you; whoever this guy is, will keep you and they will find you irreplaceable.
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