Love is very beautiful and sometimes chaotic thing. It's not perfect. Partners experience life together through the good, and through the chaotic storms.
Love is more than just good banter back and forth. It is the feeling of care you have for someone that even through moments of storms and harsh winds you will work at making it well...work.
Love means yelling and screaming at each other — not in a way that demeans them but because you really don't understand why they did something so stupid. You can't imagine your life without them because the care..the love you have for them is so real.
Love is tossing around, and knowing that when their head isn't right next to yours you can't fall asleep. You wonder how they are doing, when will you talk again because their body is somehow connected to theirs.
Love is annoying. It is poking and prying at each other so you learn what makes people tick. It is the fights, it is the madness of miscommunication, of being angry...But knowing at the end of the day or night, you can come back together regardless of disagreements and just love each other more because it's not always rainbows.
Love is asking about the small details in your partner's life, even if you can't remember it all. It's the moments of spending hours, days, however many moments listening to the venting, the sadness, the tears, the laughter, of each other because you want to be there for them as much as they are for them.
Love means the teasing, the checking if they should go to the doctor, the moments in which they make you want to pull your hair out.
Love means waiting for your person to catch up to the show you said you would watch together but they are just so damn slow or time gets to them, they can't watch it yet.
Love means waking up to an alarm, kissing them on the forehead and reminding them you have to go, but telling them you love them regardless.
Love means helping with the tab, it means acting as equals, and not taking your partner for granted.
Love is opening up about what the hell is going on in your life, even though it is difficult or hard to talk about a rough day. It's letting your partner know what is going on even when you don't want to.
Love means spending equal time with each other's families, even though it might be your turn to miss out on seeing yours this go around.
Love is trying to keep calm and not use words to hurt each other even when you are just royally pissed off. It is trying to be conscious of how you might say the wrong thing, knowing when you just need time to walk away.
It's taking turns doing the dirty work. It's living and breathing life together because you know life is better with each other. It's loving each other, and working together.
Love is being a team even in moments where it is far from being damn perfect.
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