“Men who think that a woman's past love affairs lessen her love for them are usually stupid and weak.” - Marilyn Monroe
Here’s the thing: We all have a past.
I was not conceptualized and created to be your “perfect someone” and you have not materialized to answer my prayers about finding someone to be with. We were both fully-realized human beings before the other entered our life.
We’ve both had past relationships. We’ve both been with other people. We’re both fully grown adults and it is perfectly okay to have a past!
If you’ve been with 2 other women or 200 other women, the point is that you’re with me. Whether or not you’re open about your past experiences with other women doesn’t change the way that I feel about you.
I deserve the same treatment. Whether I’ve been with 1 other guy or 1000 other guys it does not change what I feel for you in this particular moment.
My priority in my life is my relationship with you, whether we’re in the bedroom, having drinks with friends, or eating at Denny’s at 2am.
The first time we kiss won’t be a test to see if you’re immediately better than everyone else. There will be no contests to see how quickly you can get me turned on.
I won’t be thinking about every other guy I’ve been with while you’re going down on me; I’ll be focused on the sensations and the great guy that I’ve got between my legs.
I won’t compare your sexual skills to those I’ve been with before; I embrace the new experiences with my current partner and be happy that you’re the one that I’m with.
When I’m with you, I’m with you, and I need you to trust me on that.
It doesn’t matter that I’ve been with other people. You’re the one that I’m with, and you’re the only one that I want to be with.
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