Silly boy - do not take the girl for granted who let you back in a second time. There are no endless chances. There are no third times the charm.
You have to understand if you break her one more moment she is going to drop you and never look back. She gave her heart another chance to love you when she should have said screw you.
The thing is it will not be her fault if you choose to not see the value in her. So for the love of pete, love her with every fiber of your being - or realize that the greatest thing in front of you won't be around forever.
The thing is giving someone else a second chance really is much more difficult than you realize. The fact she was strong enough to forgive you, or even take you back in after all the bumps a long the way says something about her character.
However just know that doesn't mean she accepts how you treated her before. It doesn't mean she will look past all the moments you forgot about her or her feelings.
The difference between now and then is she knows what she deserves and wants nothing more for you to treat her like she is the last damn treasure in your life. Be big enough to learn from the mistakes and show her you mean it when you say you love her this time.
The second chance that was given to you was because she cares so passionately about you. She was trusting that the chemistry between you guys would be never ending, and that is why she chose to seek you out so you would stay by there.
But please know it isn't because she can't handle her own. She doesn't need you. She just believes in you, and what you have.
So fall in love with the girl who gives you her all, but make sure to give a damn to keep her around. She knows you are full of imperfections - but you won't stop to push you along the way. She believes in your potential to grow with her.
But she knows too what she wants - and she is willing to walk away for a life better if it ever gets to that point.
But before it ever gets to that point - keep the commitment you made to her. She is willing to look past all the other hurts just so you will stay.
Her love for you is real so don't ever forget that. She looks to what could be and chooses to listen to her heart. But remember this is it...
There are no more chances.
So take it or leave because isn't life better with her instead of a life without her?
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