The biggest mistake that many people make is chasing those who serve no purpose in their lives whether it is a family member, friend or even a partner. If someone does not show any interest in your existence why allow them to have so much of presence in yours?
Chasing someone who has no desire to be chased can cause emotional and mental damage because it usually becomes so draining that eventually you end up alone with no form of independence because you feel the need for affection from someone who easily tossed you to the side without any concern.
Why do we end up chasing those who we regard heartless for not seeing our attempts?
Maybe because we know that they have been in our position fighting for the love of someone who refused to accept it.
Sometimes we become so in denial about the people we love that we refuse to see the people right in front of us.
We remember who they were instead of who they are now in the hopes of them changing or becoming who we wanted in the beginning.
Life does not work that way.
Imagine the amount of time we end up wasting chasing people who are actually toxic for the soul. People who bring out the worst in us rather than the best and we regard that as love because initially things were different.
Hoping that the person we loved would come back and be who we knew instead of who we are acquainted with now.
People change, grow and become what they feel is necessary in order to become stronger.
Nobody is heartless. Everyone has broken pieces and sometimes we refuse to understand that their inability to mutually accept our love is because they have been broken before and are not ready to be chased.
Some people have experienced the chase far too many times and refuse to fall because they fear that they would not be caught once they fall.
We all have that fear and we all avoid being chased because we have no idea whether or not the person chasing us is worth accepting or worth our time because of how rare it is to find a genuine partner.
Sometimes we chase people so much thinking that maybe if we are persistent, they will eventually see our efforts and realize how serious we are and eventually give in.
That is not always the case.
Chasing someone who is not ready or has no desire being chased could drain your soul because they might eventually find you obnoxious and repulsive.
Being persistent is not always a positive trait as some people may find it annoying and you end up pushing that person away because of the pressure you are placing on them to accept your heart.
There is a reason why people who have no desire to be chased, because they experienced what it is like to chase others who were not ready. They know what it feels like to be persistent and not be accepted or loved.
Stop chasing people who avoid you. People who do not see the beauty that is you or the people who refuse to recognize your worth.
Why would you want to chase someone who refuses your heart?
What good is it chasing someone who is not obsessed with you from the very beginning?
True love does not need a one sided heart beating but two hearts constantly chasing each other. Having a mutual desire for one another.
Forcing love upon another person will only end in broken pieces.
When you stop chasing the wrong things, you give the rights things a chance to catch you.
You will never have to chase what wants to stay.
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