It's not easy being the girl who loves to talk but also loves her alone time.
You feel at times you give people mixed signals because you are always deciding whether you want to hang out with people or sit and watch netflix or read a nice book.
You understand a balance in life that some people don't get yet. Yes, you're referring to the 20 something's who normally go out every night and don't get up the next day till around 2.
You're not judging but you just don't find that fun and you never have and some people won't ever understand.
Being the outgoing introverted girl can be amazing but at times it can also be very hard.
You love people but when you are put in situations where you can't get a break it gets really stressful. And then there are times where you feel like you have no friends or are always alone and it hurts.
You have days where you love everything about your outgoing introverted self but then you also have days where you wish you could just be one of the two.... But that's what makes you special.
You understand a wide range of people and that's why you can be friends with practically anyone. You get why introverted people like their books and keeping to themselves and you also understand people who are outgoing and strive to meet new people every day.
You get them because these people are just like you.
You love having days where you just relax and don't do anything. But you also love the days where you get to go out with a group of friends all dolled up, meeting new people. Who may become more friends who won't always get you.
But you are the best of both worlds and some people may not understand you but you understand them and that's a pretty awesome gift.
You look at people in a different light. A less judgmental one, eyes that are more understanding and heart that is more open. Maybe that's why people can confide in you so easily.
Being an outgoing introverted girl gives you something not everyone gets to have and that is knowledge on how people work.
You may have daily struggles but you also have an amazing gift.
You have to make sure when you're feeling down that you remind yourself of how many people you have helped because of being the outgoing introverted girl that you are.
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