Always second guessing and questioning everything: that's the story of her life.
She has to constantly remind herself every single day that being afraid of things going wrong isn’t the way to make things go right.
She has it stuck in her mind that good things pass her by and will never happen to her, especially when it comes to men.
Her past is full of men who just up and leave whenever they please.
So she doesn't think she'll ever find that one man who will stay. She believes that she isn't worthy of a good man and a good relationship.
When things seem too good to be true, she goes into the worry state. And once there, there is no way for her to keep it calm.
When she finds someone who values her and wants to be with her, she constantly needs reassurance from him.
There is always the questions of "Are you sure you want to be with me?" and "How much do you love me?" on a daily basis because she needs to make sure nothing has changed in his mind.
She truly believes that she'll ruin it.
She thinks she's always doing something that could potentially jeopardize the relationship and needs to be reassured that everything is okay.
She needs a man that will calm her when she is having anxiety about their relationship or that will laugh at her not-so-funny jokes just to make her feel good.
She struggles with accepting compliments. She has a hard time believing that a man could really love her and want to be with her for the rest of her life.
She has constantly been let down time after time.
Even though it's not fair to the next guy, she expects to be let down again. And so she wants to be prepared for it happening.
Every day she is awaiting the "It's not you, it's me" text. It's because she has heard that so much that she just expects it, no matter how good things seem to be going.
Relationships are hard for her because she has been lied to over and over again.
Above all else, she wants nothing more in this world than to find love and to be confident in that love. So guys, if you are lucky enough to find a girl who has trouble keeping it calm, please do not take advantage of her.
She is fragile and she's put up walls that only a real man can get down.
I know it's frustrating to have to constantly reassure someone that your love for them is real and that you won't hurt them. But it's not that simple to her. She has trusted those words so many times and every time it ended in heartbreak.
You need to show her that you are different than any man that has entered and walked out of her life. She needs to see how hard you'll fight for her trust and her heart.
I promise you though, she will love you to the moon and back and has more to offer than you can ever imagine.
I promise you, she's worth it.