Bold women - you know the ones who not afraid to love, the ones who are not afraid to tell you like it is, are sometimes rare breeds.
It is difficult to say exactly what we are supposed to do in situations such as these. It is even harder to try to figure out how to love someone who seems to be not so scared of the world.
But the thing is, whether they are are a rare breed or not, they are still wonderful to love. Women who need love just as much as they are willing to give it.
The question then becomes how do you love the woman who seems to take the breathe of everyone away. How do you love someone who is not afraid to love themselves.
You love her fiercely.
You recognize she is not afraid to look you in the eye and love you for who you are. She is not one who is afraid of telling you what is on your mind. So as she loves you, love her back just as fiercely. When she reminds you how much passion she has, remind her you see her. When you want to love her, show her by cradling her hands. Never let her doubt you. Do not over think it. Do not question your love for her. Love her as intimately, and passionately as she loves you.
Watch her back continuously.
Be there for her by telling her the truth. Always telling her when she is being some type of way. When she seems to be side track, or letting her passion get just a bit in the way. Her heart, her splendor, and her greatness are of high caliber, and what she needs is to be reminded that even through her brokenness she is on top. Show her that sometimes she might be wrong, but you will be by her side regardless. You must be willing to watch her back, to look out for her in the way she needs. Fight for her, and be with her. Because you love and care for her in the long run.
Remind yourself she doesn't need a protector, she just needs someone to love her.
There will be a moment where she needs you. But don't forget about her independence, and the fact that she helped raise to the top on her own. But there will be moments where she won't have it all together all the time...and she will need you. When she loses her way remind her that she can keep going. Everyone has weak moments, you just need to remind her she can keep going. Sometimes she needs to just know she is not a lone, and you will be there supporting her.
Do not compare to her to what you already have.
She is a wonder on her own right. She is not like others you have been with. She has a different heart, a different personality. Her heartbeat, beats for you for real. She is by your side, you just need to remember that. You need to be reminded that what is right in front of you is perfect for you. Stand fast to the image of the person who loves you in front of you now. She is not waiting for your relationship to fail, she is waiting for it to grow. Be the love that is full. Continue to be the love that is bold.
Be confident, and love her completely.
You don't need to be afraid. She loves you with great conviction she just needs to be reminded of that. Do not be afraid to love her because she loves you. Her heart is there for you. Her intentions are great. And she is invested. So remind her of why she chose you. She cares deeply, and she is there for you always.
Do not fear what is to come. Just be reminded of what is right in front of you.
A woman with a bold heart, who wants you constantly.
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