At this time, typically when you're alone. Driving home from work or laying in bed when no one else seems to be distracting you with text messages or phone calls.
At this time, I know its when you feel the weakest. It's when you start to wonder if he is thinking about you in the same ways you think about him.
It's when you wonder if you should just honor your urges and reach out.
It all sounds appeasing and trust me, I have been and am in that current situation now.
I have always had a strong belief in honoring how you feel and doing whatever you feel like doing to be able to diminish whatever flame is ignited with those thoughts inside you.
However, my dear, you've come a long way. Whether it be one hour, or in my case- 4 days, you have come a long way.
Do not give up now. Do not give into the thoughts of wanting and needing validation of how he feels because if he felt that way, he would be the one to reach out to you.
In certain situations, he very well could feel how you would want him to; however, it just isn't the time for you two. What you have to know is that, that's ok.
With all things, the universe has its reasons and timing is everything. Remember how much stronger you have become with the suffering.
Remember how much wiser you are because of this heartache. Remember that with all this grief, you have only created more awareness in the depth of how much you can love a person.
Whether you end up with this man or another, you are worth it and a phone call or his words via text does not validate that.
Reassure yourself that there's a reason why this all happens and the moments of loneliness you're enduring now and the urges to reach out are only temporary.