They say that waiting doesn't always mean you'll get what you want, so by sitting back and waiting you could miss out on amazing possibilities. But these are my reasons why I'll wait to choose you.
1. I need to make sure you're worth spending my energy on.
I don't mean this is a mean way, but I need to know if you're worth my time and energy because I've had my time and energy wasted in the past. Life is short, so I want to spend my time effectively and I need to know if you'll spend your energy on me too. It's all about give and take, whatever effort you give me, I'll give you back the same amount of effort.
2. I need to know you won't hurt me purposefully.
My heart has been broken so many times before that I don't need it broken again, so I need to know that you won't intentionally hurt me. My heart just can't take any more heartache.
3. I need to know you'll support me even with my craziest ideas.
Even if my ideas sound crazy and f*cked up, I hope you can find the light in there somewhere and help me achieve my goal, no matter how crazy.
4. I need to know if you'll be honest with me.
I need you to be honest with me when your mad, sad, scared or whatever you are feeling. I want to know what your feeling, so if I say something or do something you don't like, I need you to tell me, because I'll always tell you, no matter how hard!
5. I need to know if I can trust you.
My trust has been broken so many times through cheating, lies and disregard for my feelings. If I'm going to choose you, I need to know you'll always have my back.
6. I need to know if you're ready for the love and commitment I'll give you.
If you're lucky enough for me to choose you and love you, I will love you with everything that I have, so I need to know that me loving you completely won't scare you off.
7. I need to know if you'll love me with everything you have.
Like I said previously, I will love you with everything I have, so I just need to know that you'll love me with just as much ferocity as I'll love you.
8. I need to know if you'll make me a priority.
I understand that sometimes you can't always make me your top priority, but I hope that I am one of your top priorities, because you'll be one of mine.
9. I need to know that you'll choose me too.
I'll always choose you, so I need to know that when I do choose you that you'll choose me too.
"Truly loving someone is when you give them the power to destroy you, but trusting them enough not to" - JVC
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