Lately, you probably have been seeing a lot of people getting engaged. It probably makes you happy and excited to see people your age wanting to share their life with someone forever.
But there are probably some that make you feel inadequate because you don't have a ring on your finger yet or you feel like all they care about is the ring. Not the commitment they are making to someone else, which is why they are supposed to be excited.
You also know that a ring doesn't define your relationship with your significant other. A ring is just an object. It doesn't say how much someone loves you or how much they really want to spend the rest of their life with you.
Sure, you want a nice ring eventually because you want the man of your dreams to really put effort into it. But you really just want him to say he wants to be with you forever... You want him to get you a ring that he loves because the ring isn't what you are excited for, being with him is.
You are excited for him to get down on one knee and ask you to be with him forever and when that day comes that is all you will care about.
But lately, the world's views are a little twisted. You notice women showing off their rings like that is who they are marrying. Instead of showing off the man who wants to be by her side for the rest of her life.
But you aren't like that. You know when your boyfriend asks you to be his forever you will be in tears because the man of your dreams is making one of the biggest commitments he ever could with you.
You will want to hold him and kiss him and tell him how happy you are that he finally asked, and the ring will come next, you will look at it and be astonished, you won't see the price or if it's the ring you wanted. You will see a ring that you will cherish forever.
A ring that you know is perfect whether it was what you "wanted" or not because you know and will know at that very moment, it isn't about the ring, it is about you and him finally getting to be together forever.
You love him and that's all that matters. He treats you like a queen and you wish other girls cherished their men like you do but I guess that's what make you so special. You know one day you will have to work hard to keep your love alive.
But it is so worth it for him. You know that you will probably outlast some of those girls who only love their rings and you will look back and be happy that you weren't one of them.
You will be happy knowing that he loved you before he gave you that perfect ring and now he loves you even more because you two have stuck together and loved each other no matter what. And no object could define that love.
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