It's your life and if a situation, a person, a job, or even a so called 'friend' is toxic or isn't what you want, move on.
No one needs to tell you how to live your life, how to be who it is you feel called to be. You are perfect the way you are, just because you exist.
So just know you are allowed to discover that greatness on your own. Allowed to move on from a life or people that beat you down. Move on from the people who belittle or keep you down.
You are allowed to be done with a relationship that is doing nothing for you, but setting you back.
Really there is nothing wrong with finding the desire to pick your feet up and move forward. We are often taught to stay silent, to not speak out on situations or things that are not healthy for us.
But sometimes you must. You must have to speak out for yourself about someone who is killing you softly. Speak up to someone who is trying to keep you down. We have to do what is best for us so we can move forward, and be the best selves we can be.
So even though it is hard, move on. Move yourself so far away from what is pushing you down so you can find yourself. Even with the tears, and the weary heart, move on and begin to recover.
It might hurt your along the way. It might make you a bit uncomfortable, but it is going to help you in the long hall. Move on from everything in your life that haunts you with demons.
Get away from the people who want nothing more than to damage you. Move on from the people who take advantage of you and give you nothing in return. All you can do is give your best, and then get rid of people who think that is not enough.
You are allowed to choose the life that is best for you. That includes saying goodbye to a past that kept you down in the first place. You deserve to not look back on people who did nothing for you.
Because this is your life, and you don't need anyone's permission to choose the best path available.
In fact it isn't just okay you move on, it is your right.
You deserve a good life. A life that is worthy of anyone you want in it. And anyone thing you want to accomplish. Don't look back on anyone who doesn't make your life better.
Be a better you without anyone in it who doesn't make you a better person.
You can move on, because this is your life, and you can do all you wish with no one else's say. So smile while you do it and live the life you so care for, for no one but yourself.
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