Look beautiful, you are not roadrunner, and if he is trying to be Wile E Coyote and give you a run around maybe he is not worth your time.
And while sometimes it is okay to play a little hard to get when you have been hurt over and over again - you should never shadow your feelings for someone else.
You shouldn't be the only one out there putting an effort in or doing all the work.
And if he isn't willing to be there the whole way maybe it's time to reevaluate his intentions and how he might really feel about you.
Someone who is deserving of your heart and time is going to want to love you and not expect you to play all the shots or make all the moves.
You don't need to be only one out there caring a lot, giving your heart out to someone who doesn't want to show you the time of day.
You are not the energizer bunny. Your feelings are valid, because you are human, and you are you.
And the best thing about it is there is nothing wrong with that.
If a guy only wants to put in a chase, and not a fight to make you a priority then girl let him go.
But if he chooses to let you go, then that is his loss, not yours.
You have way more confidence inside of you to know you deserve the perfect someone who lives and breathes with you by their side.
It doesn't mean things will be perfect, but it does mean it will happen naturally, and not after an exhausting chase.
It shouldn't be complicated to find someone who really wants you for you and one who won't make you chase them down in the end run.
A real man wants you because you are their definition of perfect, and they desire to be with you because they think you are worth it.
They know that the woman that sits in front of them is powerful, elegant and fully capable. And he will never leave you long enough to make you think you have to go chase after him.
He is happy just being with you, and he isn't fish hooked to stay.
He is there not because of his games or ego, but because he knows he wants the right kind of lady in his life and that lady is you.
At the end of the day, someone who really wants to be with you will never stop making you feel like you belong like you are the one they want all the time. You don't have times for games because you are not a chess piece.
At the end of the day if a guy is asking you to chase him the harsh reality is he might be running away. If he is running away from commitment or responsibilities then leave him to it.
Because if he is getting away he doesn't deserve you, he deserves himself.
If a guy is really meant to be he won't ask you to chase him.
If he is really into you for the right reasons he will see all the wonders of who you are.
There won't be any need for a race, you're not a track horse after all.
You are perfect the way you are.
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