If you constantly find yourself in mistake after mistake relationship, you’re definitely not alone.
People who share your sign, are more likely to find themselves in the same type of unfulfilling relationship as you.
And knowing exactly why, can help you navigate new relationships a little more wisely.
(March 21st to April 19th)
You run a little too fast into a relationship. You are 0 to 60 in a blink of an eye the second something feels right.
So, slow down, make sure you haven’t missed any important red flags, and shut your big mouth when it comes to talking about marriage and kids.
You don’t want to scare them away, do you?
(April 20th to May 21st)
Dig a little deeper than just what’s on the outside, Taurus.
You get too caught up in the shiny new, sexy person in front of you that you forget what you really need in a partner – stability and responsibility not just sexiness.
Don’t just rely on their looks.
(May 22nd to June 21st)
You always need some good mental stimulation. In fact, you very often crave it.
But that doesn’t mean you don’t find yourself latched onto someone who is very interesting but also very flighty.
They don’t seem to stick with one job long and the list of hobbies they’ve tried and gave up on is a mile long.
You need someone who can stimulate your mind but you also don’t have to take care of so much.
(June 22nd to July 22nd)
Being taken care of and being controlled are two very different things.
We all know that you love being provided for and made to feel loved 24/7.
But sometimes those you seek as a partner find it as a way to control, manipulate and even possess you.
Don’t settle for them because they can provide for you financially. You deserve way more.
(July 23rd to August 22nd)
You need more responsibility with your partners.
Yes, you love to have a good time and want someone who can inspire you, but that often means finding someone who can’t take care of you in other ways.
Finding a kindred soul with a great, big personality is awesome, but only if they are fully able to take care of themselves.
You shouldn’t find yourself taking care of them all fo the time.
A relationship is a team effort after all.
(August 23rd to September 22nd)
Loosen up Virgo and stop settling. We all know you are the more serious, workaholic type.
And so you find yourself in relationships with those who are also on the more serious side – that’s the problem.
You need someone who will bring a little more fun into your life and breakup the monotony, rather than someone who will just join in on your seriousness.
(September 23rd to October 22nd)
I know just how much you hate being single.
You are on the ultimate quest to find someone to love and love you back.
Which is great and all, but your desire for a partnership often leads you to people who are indecisive and controlling.
Which only eventually breaks your heart.
So, slow down on needing to find your soulmate, stop searching and let fate do its thing.
(October 23rd to November 22nd)
Maybe start using your heart a little more, Scorpio.
Relationships for you nearly always start on a physical note.
Sex is great and all, but in the long run you need more. Get your heart involved and see what happens.
You never know unless you try.
(November 23rd to December 21st)
You love your independence but also forget that you also need love and attention.
You often find partners who are willing to give you the distance you need, but it’s often too far for a relationship to work out.
Remember that a relationship often thrives on closeness. You can be close but still independent if you work to find the right balance.
(December 22nd to January 20th)
Relationships aren’t a business deal, Capricorn. Yes, you are a grownup who loves dating other grownups, but next time find one who will also bring out the child in you at times. There are people out there who are stable and can give you the romance of a lifetime.
(January 21st to February 18th)
You love dating people who have those odd quirks about them.
If they aren’t something special, then you’re out. And your ice-cold attitude is all they will know.
Just don’t let someone’s interesting personality outshine how they treat you.
Being interesting doesn’t make up for abusive tendencies.
(February 19th to March 20th)
The hopeless romantic that you are often leading you to heartbreaking places.
You tend to get so caught up in your storybook fantasies, that you often forget about the bad behaviors your partner is showing.
Even if they are full up on romance and good looks, that doesn’t make up for them being unemployed, dealing with addiction or being straight up rude to you and those around them.
A little fantasy is alright, but don’t forget to put your reality glasses on occasionally.
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