A strong woman builds her own world. She is one who is wise enough to know that it will attract the man she will gladly share it with.
- Ellen Barrier
Beautiful, I want you stop and relax. I want you to take a moment and just breathe. Take a moment to see yourself for what you really are worth...
And remind yourself, you are kind.
You are smart.
You are important.
It is not everyday we are reminded of what it means to be a strong woman. We are often told we are powerful or wise enough to share in the world of splendor it has for women like us.
But I need you now, to listen to this...to remember you are not a damn punching bag. You are not a toy. You are human, and you need to be reminded of you.
No one deserves to have hands put on them. No one deserves the name calling ,or the torment that comes with being who it is they should be. You are the next wonder woman.
And I know it may not seem like that, I know it may seem difficult to swallow a pill that you are extraordinary, but I promise you are that and more.
Darling you don't deserve people to beat you down. You don't need anyone in your life who makes you feel small, or makes you feel like you are just a bag who deserves all the low blows.
You may feel like people don't understand what it is you are going through. Perhaps people can't read your pretty little face and think everything is wrong... but I can assure you everything you have gone through is very much real. It very much matters.
And you deserve to be in control of your greatness. You deserve to be in control of your own life.
See you are strong even if you don't realize it. You are great even if people don't believe in you. So stop looking for love in the wrong places.
In fact stop looking for love where it might not exist.
Being a punching bag is not your end goal. You are not the end of a story.
In fact you are the beginning of a journey. You just need to focus on that. You just need to work on that, work on building yourself up at your own expense and time.
Let no one take that away from you.
Let no one tell you that you can't be wonder woman. That you can't be more than broken cement pavings.
Because you are strong.
Because you are great.
So stand in front of anyone who tells you different than that. Who makes you feel small, and tell them off.
You are not a punching bag. I keep saying that because it is true.
You are not a pillow case to be crushed and trampled on at the expense of other peoples hands.
Being wonder woman is a blessing as well as a curse. But it honestly is what you make out of it.
It is you smelling out fear and being the best that you can. It is you reaching out, and moving toward being the best version of yourself.
It is standing up and speaking out because enough is enough.
So be endowed with power. Be that woman no one else can match.
Be the witty cat woman.
Be the noble Snow White.
The elegant Emma Swan.
Be the hardworking Tianna...and remember you matter.
Remember you are much more than anything else or what anyone else is telling you.
Be the damn heroine, the damn hero, the damn whatever...
And enjoy it.
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