If there was one personality type you could choose from to find an ideal boyfriend, you should go for the blunt guy. He's open, honest, and real. If you ever get the chance to date one of these near-perfect men, hold him down with all you've got.
1. He’ll make you stronger.
Blunt guys are very observant. Your blunt boyfriend won’t let you take the easy way out, cut corners, or continue to hang out with the wrong people. He tells it like it is, and he’ll let you know if something sounds a little fishy. Be thankful if you find a guy that wants to help you get stronger, and cut out all of the negative people and habits in your life.
2. He won’t baby you or shower you with empty compliments.
Sure, he’s affectionate and loving, but you won’t get certain praise unless you actually deserve it. The amazing thing about blunt guys is that you’ll always know that they’re telling the truth.
Your guy won’t want to bullshit you or make up compliments if he doesn’t really mean them. He’ll help you get tough and get real.
3. He gives the best advice.
A wonderful characteristic of the blunt guy is that he’s brutally honest. In fact, honesty is one of his most important values. So when you ask him for help, he’ll analyze the situation and give you a solution to the best of his abilities.
And if you’re in the wrong, he won’t side with you just because you’re his girlfriend. He’ll tell you how to make things right.
4. He will call it like he sees it, every time.
"That dress doesn't look good on you." The blunt guy will never let you out of the house looking less than your best. Sure, sometimes you know that your outfit might not appeal to guys and you just want to hear that you look good anyway.
Call up your girlfriends to hear praise. The blunt guy will never kiss your ass just to make you feel better.
5. When he tells you how he feels, he means it.
That “I love you” is serious. He’s not going to say it just because he thinks the situation calls for it. Too many guys throw those three words around, and are out the door in two months. The blunt guy will stand by his word and take it seriously.
6. He’ll never make you feel insufficient.
The blunt boyfriend is real, but he knows that his bluntness can be hurtful. As a boyfriend, he knows to balance his bluntness with sympathy and comfort you when you need it.
But he’ll also throw in some tough love, because he doesn’t like girls who wallow and self-pity. Tough love helps you to grow and learn from your mistakes.
7. The blunt guy has a great sense of humor.
Blunt people tend to have a love for sarcasm. They easily offend people who are more sensitive and gullible, so instead of saying something true (but highly offensive), they’ll use sarcasm to make their point.
Dating a blunt guy will be hilarious because he’ll always have an underhanded comment that you can’t deny.
8. He doesn't play games.
The blunt guy will tell you how it is. If he’s not looking for commitment, he won’t drag you around, making you feel like shit. He’s going to tell you what he wants, straight up. Likewise, if he wants to commit, you’ll know from the start. He makes everything clear so you won’t have to play the guessing game.