Black Lives Matter, Today and Always

Editors Note- This article was originally published on our site Sept 2016. Sadly, a lot of the frustrations back then remain today. We are posting this article in its original form. We do this out of respect for the brave and thoughtful writer, the lives lost and the Black Lives Matter Movement. Please consider making a donation to Black Lives Matter Here. Let us all continue to learn from our history. 

 

So, a lot of people have been talking about Black Lives Matter movement. Mostly I try and stay away from topics such as that.

 

However, I live in the state of North Carolina and just tonight, in a town four hours away from me, in Charlotte things have gotten out of hand. A black man was shot dead at a bus stop to pick up his child by a white woman police officer. Some people say he was reaching for a gun; the family says he was reading a book.

 

How do we really even know what he was doing? Only that police officer knows and unfortunately the man who is dead now.

 

6 Confessions of a Kinky Mom

Everyone likes sex but once you become a mom for the first time everything seems to be more about baby and less about you. I honestly think that’s great and all but, before I became a mom I was a sex-loving female who loved my child’s father. I loved my child’s father so much  in fact, that I’d love him- every night with my pussy. However, all that loving seemed to stop when the baby came along.

 

Everyone seemed to be in love with my child and I had to find a way back to being in love with my body and my husband again in the sexual way that I seemed to be missing. That can be a little scary sometimes as you feel like you are trying to be perfect for everyone and everything. When I started reading up on trying to put my sexy sparkle back together for my husband, I must admit I got a little kinky. 

 

I fell in love all over again with sex! It was great until my mom world and my sexy world started to collide…

 

 1. One, night I was really in the mood and invited my husband to fold laundry with me and we thought it would be a great idea to turn the dryer on and for me to get on top. It was great, it was heaven, until our toddler started knocking on the door screaming. Our sexy time had to be a quickie time.

 

2. My husband also thought it would be a great idea to buy me a vibrator. Ladies, I must have been living under a rock let me tell you. The only drawback was when my daughter wiped it out of her diaper bag (don’t ask me why it was in there) and threw it across the dinning room, in the middle of a restaurant, and it landed right on another table.

 

To All the Kick-Ass Moms Teaching Their Daughters Self Respect

Becoming a mother for the first time can be one of the most life changing things in the world.

 

There are late nights, lot’s of poop and endless worrying that never ever stops.

 

When a daughter is born it’s a whole different ball game. One day they will look at you and see themselves.

 

This morning my daughter asked me if I brushed my hair because I was beautiful. I simply smiled and said “yes”, and told her she was beautiful too inside and out.

 

Daughter’s always look to their mother’s in the beginning to see there self worth.

 

To every mother out there that lend by example, and showed your daughter how strong you are I applaud you right now.

 

Raising children isn’t just giving happy childhood’s it’s making them functioning adults that will go onto raise more hopefully functioning adults.

 

When you show your daughter that you can build her bed all by yourself you are showing that she can one day do that too.

 

When you comment in front of your daughter that you need to go on a diet, later on they will think they need to go on a diet too.

 

Empowering your daughter to be great and love herself is not for the faint of heart.

 

We must first love our self’s as woman to teach this.

 

There is no more of a powerful tool than leading by example, those little rug rats are always, and I mean always watching you.

 

Being a kick-ass mom isn’t always about building thing’s it’s telling your daughter endlessly that  being imperfect is what make’s her perfect.

 

It’s showing her we don’t need daddy to mow the lawn that we got this.

 

When your daughter feels like she is struggling with her weight and doesn’t like her body it’s bonding with her over the issue.

 

Not by telling her she need’s to go on a diet, but, by getting outside and doing something physical with her.

 

Being kick-ass is supporting your daughter’s boy-like hair cut, when no one else think’s it looks “girlie” enough.

 

It’s your daughter’s world and don’t let her listen to the hater’s because at the end of the day this will empower you too.

 

Fundamental Virtues of Raising a Strong Little Princess

My Princess

There are a lot of things I wish I could tell my daughter. But, she is two years old and the only thing on her mind is Daniel Tiger and Princesses.

 

She’s my sweet baby, and I really don’t want her to grow up and fly far away from me the obsessive mama bear. I want her to stay my baby forever and always. She’s my first child so when I had her everything was new and different. I like to joke that she was my experiment.

 

If I didn’t kill her then I’d be okay. I know one day my daughter will grow up and be more and want more for her life. I know something I didn’t really seem to struggle with too much was my body image.

 

I truly think it was because I had a mother that never really spoke to me at least much about the things she didn’t like about her body. She always showed me how strong she was instead. I think that one simple act was more powerful for my self-esteem than my mother probably ever really knew.

So here is my advice to my future daughter and maybe someone else might say similar things to their daughters one day too.

 

Food Porn To Excite Your Inner Zodiac

Everyone on the planet loves food.

I don’t think I have ever met one person that has uttered the words, “I just don’t like eating.”

I do think certain people gravitate towards particular food more than others. But, each of us has a different attitude towards food.

The best way I think to look at this is through astrology to see if your zodiac sign really does tell the truth about your food likes and dislikes.

1. Aries: Your sign is the spice lover lurking around in us all.

Give ya’ll some enchilada’s and some tai food with extra hot sauce for dipping and you are in your own personal heaven.

2. Taurus: These guys just love food in general; Anything and everything is apart of their own personal dinner menu. (Brownies, tacos, ribs.) They are all in.

This includes dessert and alcohol people.

3. Gemini: Geminis have a great healthy relationship with food.

They don’t usually have too many weight issue either because the poor things are already starving all the time. Too much kale in their diet and not enough taco’s.

4. Cancer: If you say you spent hours preparing it, and you made everything your self well cancer won’t leave left overs for sure.

They are suckers for anything home cooked. So, just give them some chicken and dumplings and they will be happy.

5. Leo: I hope you worked over time this week. Feeding a leo can get expensive. They love the finer things in life and that includes food.

Break out that caviar from the freezer you have been saving.

6. Virgos: These bitches are sensitive they always have their nose up about something. They will be the first one to complain about some food too.

Best to give them some bland chicken and vegetables to not upset their sensitive stomach’s either.

7. Libra: Libra’s are the sweetest of the zodiac and also have the biggest sweet tooth’s out there.

They are the ones with secret candy drawers at work and at home filled with chocolate. Go ahead look around the office with the person stuffing food in their mouth right now.

8. Scorpio: Food is their art. If one ingredient is missing from the dish they are preparing the whole thing is ruined.

Give them something that’s elaborate yet simple like a Cuban sandwich and you have won their food heart over.

9. Sagittarius: The sign that will over indulge the most. So, for them if you are feeding a sag portion control is a must.

But, over all you won’t find them to be picky eaters, breakfast for dinner is a go too.

10. Capricorn: These people love a simple meal. They are the steak and potatoes of the zodiac.

11. Aquarius: They love sharing even their food. Honestly though an Aquarius can often be seen stuffing their face full of vegetables.

So, if you are into clean eating than they are your food porn soul mates.

12. Pisces: The natural chef’s of the zodiac. No one taught them how to be the “Iron chef” in the kitchen they just are. Give them any food and they can make a meal out of it.

When feeding them they will literally eat anything and love weird combo’s so why not some chicken and waffles?

Happy eating.

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22 Signs You’re The Sass Queen Of Your Friend Group

Being the Sassy one in your group is a gift. Every girl needs that friend. You keep things real and your loyalty to the ones you can stand in your tribe.

If anyone ever challenges your stance you hit them with an “Everyone was thinking it, I just put it out there.” Hold your torch high girl. Sassy girls are classic and beautiful.

1. You’re the friend that listens to the bullshit, tells the friend it’s bullshit but, keeps listening anyway.

2. You might suffer from being too saucy when everyone just assumes you are “the mean one.”

3. When someone in your tribe is in a texting battle and it’s going down in a bad way you are the friend to take over said texting fight.

4. When the waiter pissed you off in public the besties know they might have to bail you out of jail later and they are going to have one hell of a story to tell.

5. People know not to talk to you before your first cup of joe.

6. Your outfit is always on point. Looking fierce is just as important as being fierce.

7. You pull off RBF with a capital P for perfection.

8. And you never apologize for being like this.

9. If someone dares to call you a “bitch”

10. You respond with a smile and a “Why thank you I know.”

11. You are always authentically you no matter what.

12. You don’t have time to chase anyone, not even a taxi because Uber comes to you.

13. You are the life of the party. In fact, it doesn’t even start until you get there.

14. You don’t wait for anyone either. Tell the bestie that hookup better be a quickie cause you are already out the door.

15. Even when you are totally trying to be serious people still believe you are hitting them with their daily dose of sassiness via you the Sass Queen.

16. Our confidence is always through the roof.

17. You basically always have a crown on your head because you are the comeback queens.

18. Sarcasm was your first language- No you mastered the side eye at one year old.

19. You’re fun pretty much everywhere you go.

20. You definitely don’t have time for drama, you’ll end any fight no matter how big or small you always have the last word.

21.  You love our tribe so much and there is a reason for it. You really can’t fucking stand anyone else and those bitches know it.

The TVD Hottie That Should Be Your Soul Mate Based on Your Zodiac Sign


You read your horoscope every morning. It’s your ritual constantly searching for advice on love and your finances. Everyone who reads it knows their fate is written in the stars. Wouldn’t you love your fate to be tied to a hottie that's gonna live forever, with killer abs and fangs. 

Why yes me I would! For everyone else like me that what's a forever soul mate with fangs, let's check out together which one is best for us based on our zodiac.

  1. Matt Donovan- Matt Donovan might be one of the few humans on TVD but, Taurus he is your man. Taurus you need a man like Matt who is loyal to a fault and always there for you in your time of need no matter how many vampires he might have to face.

  2. Elijah Mikaelson- First of all just his accent and chivalry should make any girl weak in the knees. Gemini this man is for you. He will never break a promise. If you want someone to keep communication open and honest he is your man as he doesn’t lie. 

  3. Mason Lockwood- This guy is the one with a deep soul. Since he’s a Werewolf he’s always looking for his forever partner in crime. He is the type that falls in love quickly and super sensitive. Pisces he is your perfect match. 

  4. Kol Mikaelson- Libra are you into naughty boys with British accents that make you wanna drop your dress? Kol is your ultimate bad boy with a sweet center. He might be always betraying his family. But, you’ll have fun doing every terrible deed together. 

  5. Alaric Saltzman- This man is a hard one to nail down. But, once you’ve got him he’ll never be able to get you out of his head. Virgo, he is the practical thinker you’ve been on the hunt for. 

  6. Jeremy Gilbert- This guy will search and destroy any vampire or supernatural creature that tries to mess with you as one of the five. Cancer he’s the sensitive artist type. After he’s done killing all the bad guys he’ll gaze at you longingly for hours and sketch your face to perfection while you sleep. 

  7. Tyler Lockwood- Another Werewolf later turned Hybrid. Capricorn Tyler is your alpha male dreamboat. He’s loyal enough to stay with you and never hurt you. You’ll never have to worry about cheating from this boy.

  8. Stefan Salvatore-  If, you are the girl that’s known to have a few wild nights where the drunk call is your thing, don’t worry Stefan is the type to forgive and forget. Sagittarius you better hubby him up cause no one else is gonna put up with your hangry temper tantrums but him.

  9. Damon Salvatore- He’s the bad boy that might freak out and kill your brother and then bring him back to life if you decide to break up. Approach with caution Aries! Damon’s love is a love that will overtake you. It will have you forgiving and forgetting with just one puppy dog look of his. He is the guy that will wait 500 hundred years for you to come out of a tomb. 

  10. Niklaus Mikaelson- He’s the ultimate wolf in sheep's clothing. He might be trying to kill everyone and make a hybrid army but, get good in with the fam and you might just get him to put a ring on it Aquarius. Always and Forever will have a whole new meaning. 

  11. Silas- Leo I know dating can be tough you just can’t seem to find the guy who can keep up with all your passion. Well, you just need to start hanging in the witchy circles Silas is in. He’s smart, passionate, and creative. He is the guy that came up with the immortality spell after all. 

  12. Kai- Every girl has a “bad boy” stage, if you are currently into that Kai is your man. He’s totally misunderstood he can’t help the only witchy power he gets is from killing his siblings. He needs a sensitive Scorpio to get lost in and maybe claim him down a little. 

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Let Go of the Person You Want to Be and Love the One You Are

I believe there is a gypsy inside us. Two different people live in us all. The one we are and the one we want the world around us to see. You'll go relationship to relationship trying to find your self. 

Only ever finding the version of you that makes your partner most happy. But which are you? The version that loves making others happy or the one that has the lowest self-esteem and the messiest relationship. 

The world sees our perfection. What we think it's okay for them to see or believe. The trouble with that is we lose sight or what is our most authentic self. We start believing our perfections are what make us whole. But if you are being true to yourself don't you really hate your thighs? Doesn't it take like 100 selfies to finally get only that makes it on your Instagram.

He didn't call you after you had sex on the first date. You gained three pounds in a weekend drinking cheap wine and eating ice cream. But, you updated your Facebook status saying, "Going out and painting the town red." Seriously for who? 

Stop being the gypsy and just own your imperfections. Own your low self-esteem and fucking do something about it. When you are split in two you break your own heart before anyone else has a chance too. They have not had a moment to see all that there is to love even the non-Instagram parts.

 Unfortunately, it's not always as easy as that. Mastering a gypsy persona takes years. So, baby steps my friends. When he asks for a naughty picture send the selfie you would never send. The one with hair up and no makeup on. 

Be proud of that damn selfie too. Simply because that is you in your rawest beauty. A real man will love it and since you've been working so hard on finding out what makes you happy so will you.

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When He Calls You out on Acting Like a Hoe He Is Not Wrong

When you go out and your bestie is snapping videos and pictures of you, grinding on another girl who’s spanking your ass, don’t get defensive if someone calls you out on it. You were, in fact, portraying yourself as wanting to have a good time, which quite frankly is up to anyone’s interpretation.

 Every feminist reading this is probably screaming “no to slut shaming” or “we need to support each other, not tear each other down”. Well, to each their own and everyone’s entitled to their own opinion. And really, no one is entitled to an explanation for feeling a certain way.

Let’s try something else here. Instead of going home with a random stranger and then posting it on all social media channels, go home and be with yourself. It’s totally cool to go out with your bestie or a group of people and have a good time. You just need to get to know yourself and think about whether or not you want to be known as the girl who’s DTF.

You are so young and hopefully, you have a lot of years left to experience life to the fullest. Do you really want to waste them by having meaningless encounters with random dudes? If you do, so be it and best of luck. If you don’t, then quit this shit right now.

Fall in love with yourself. Get to know yourself.

You can’t really appreciate another person and all the endless love they could potentially give you if you don’t love yourself first. Just know that the truest love you could ever have is finding the power and self-esteem to accept your inner and outer beauty.

The simple trick is when to let a guy in. No, it’s not on the first date. That usually sucks and doesn’t work out anyway.

Once you know yourself any asshole who might try and tear you down won’t be worth your time. You will see this from the beginning because you won’t be playing games. You will be having a great time to just be yourself and only for yourself.

Guys can simply smell a DTF girl from a mile away. They are usually seen as the girl they can’t take home, as the sharable one, and as the girl that is not seen. They are never taken seriously. Ever.  

Be the one that changes them, be the one that’s beautiful and can have a great time with or without the man.

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Why Lucas Scott Was the Ultimate Fuckboy of OTH

Love him or hate him Lucas Scott is heaven mixed with hell. He knows how to turn on the charm when he want’s something bad enough. 

It seems like no matter how hard he tries, he’ll never really have his mind made up either way.

1. Um, holy cheater.

Lucas, poor boy, he always the type to want to have his cake and eat it too. He can’t ever just be satisfied with the one he has at the moment. On the show, he cheated not once, but two times. Twice. 

If that's not basic fuckboy material, I don't know what is. 

2. Does she have a heart beat? Ok, Lucas loves her then.

He elevated to worst fuck boy status here, he believed he was in love with a different girl every damn day. As long as she was breathing and had long hair, he had his eyes on her. 

Come on Lucas just pick one.

3. His advice was conniving and phoney.

Lucas loved giving advice to his friends. However, it usually sucked. Like a tried and true fuck boy that he was, he always said things like “because I care, etc.” Gag. 

4. He comes on way too hot and heavy.

He screwed Peyton and all of our hearts with these words, “I love you, I want to be here, I want to be everything with you. I want it all, I want us.”

5. And gives every girl the same mushy BS. 

When he got tired of Peyton he screwed Brooke too, “I love you, Brooke, I want to be with you. Not Peyton.” Lucas, are you sure this time man?

6.  He’s the queen of saying deep dramatic shit and walking away.

While talking to Brooke, “The heart has reasons that reason cannot know.” Yes, Lucas we know and so do you.

But let's be real, it only took one look from those puppy dog eyes and him proclaiming his undying love during a rainstorm to make you say, “Fuck it I’m in. “

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