23 Signs You And Your Best Friend Are Meant To Grow Old Together

Your girlfriends will probably outlive your husband, so find good ones.

Here are the legit signs that prove that you and your best friend are literally stuck with each other forever.

You are your absolute weirdest self when your best friend is around because you feel free enough to do and say whatever the hell you please in their company.

That includes making jokes in the most inappropriate situations and never having a filter because you get each other’s sense of humor and know you’re just the silliest people at heart.

 

If anyone is really serious and pretentious you will mess with them. Like cats with laser pointers. They’re the cat and you guys are the laser pointer.

 

You actually inspire each other’s weirdness…

 

Literally, no convo is off limits. Poop.

 

Since you have zero shame about making fools of yourself in front of each other, your BF is usually the audience for all your crazy accents and impersonations, bad jokes and “stripper whose rent is due tomorrow” dance moves.

 

There really isn’t a dull afternoon if you two are in the same room – put you guys together and it’s a whole bunch of crazy that’s actually amazing.

 

18 Slightly “Asshole” Things That Blunt People Absolutely Love Doing

People that do slightly asshole stuff aren’t actually insensitive, the only people who think otherwise are the people who don’t have a sense of humor and are probably the biggest assholes of all.

 

The truth is, we’re all slight assholes sometimes:

 

Using sarcasm to insult stupid people without them realizing it. Since hitting people is frowned upon, sarcasm is your selected shield.

 

Messing with really serious and pretentious people. Like cats with laser pointers. They’re the cat and you’re the laser pointer.

 

“Don’t tell anyone what I just told you.” You: “No no of course not never.” *Copy* *Paste entire conversation to the best friend*

 

When you laugh in really inopportune situations and then you can’t stop laughing because it’s so inappropriate but that much funnier.

 

Farting silently and then leaving the room.

 

Having the urge to tell someone to STFU even when they aren’t talking.

 

Texting someone and then they call, but you only feel like texting so you don’t pick up.

 

Listening in on people’s conversations and then judging them: Idiot. Of course that wasn’t her cousin that she went to dinner with.

 

Your camera roll is like 90 percent of screenshots because you just make fun of people.

 

Stealing someone’s cab because you’re faster: Sooorrrryyy! Muhahaha

 

At work replacing “fuck you” with “okay, great.”

 

Provoking people that are completely ridiculous – like when you’re debating with something who’s a dick and you just say absurd stuff to make them madder.

 

Things You Should Know Before Dating The Girl Who Conceals Her Anxiety

Anxiety Concealed

People with concealed anxiety often feel anxiety the most intensely because we tend to suppress it a lot. We don’t like to talk about it, we don’t want to admit when we’re overwhelmed, and we will never say when we’re not okay. In fact, it’s probably our worst fear for someone to see us struggling.

 

1. We’d rather deal with it alone.

We don’t want anyone’s sympathy; we don’t want these labels: The one with anxiety. The one who’s vulnerable. The one with an uneasiness to trust. Because this is only a part of us; but the part that we need to fight every time someone tries to get close to us nevertheless.

 

14 Signs You And Your Bestie Are An Overly Attached Couple

You And Your Best Friend

You walk into her house and your WiFi connects automatically, she’s definitely made from the same ingredients as you, and no matter how much you drive each other crazy, you’ll hang on to her for life.

Because so many people are great on paper but are actually really boring and uninspiring, And one thing to take off your list of worries is feeling that way around her. Because no matter how sarcastic you are, at the end of the day, you know that your best friend is bae.

 

Here are the signs that prove you and your best friend are actually an overly attached couple:

 

To the Guy Who I Thought I Would Grow Old with

“A true soul mate is probably the most important person you’ll ever meet, because they tear down your walls and smack you awake. But to live with a soul mate forever? Nah. Too painful. Soul mates, they come into your life just to reveal another layer of yourself to you, and then leave. A soul mates purpose is to shake you up, tear apart your ego a little bit, show you your obstacles and addictions, break your heart open so new light can get in, make you so desperate and out of control that you have to transform your life, then introduce you to your spiritual master…”?  ?Elizabeth Gilbert

Our hearts kept it simple.

I fell in love the way you fall asleep: slowly, and then all at once. I don’t really know when it exactly happened, but somewhere in between our intense eye contact and wiping my tears away as my walls came down that I spent years crafting, I crashed into you fully and never looked back.

My heart was unguarded, and I gave you all of me. We didn’t just hang out. We played. Our souls were alive – we were like two little kids again seeing the world for the first time – being with you multiplied all the good in life and changed me forever.

But our minds were another story.

We were complicated people, you and I. We weren’t simple. Our minds were analytical and imaginative and we thought about everything. A lot. We ended up making every situation in our life about 100x more difficult than it had to be.

 

We argued a lot. I fought with you at inopportune times, but my anger was fueled by my passion and emotions for you. I cared. I loved you. I loved all of you. I loved that I was the only one you showed certain parts of yourself to, you gave me all of you.

 

I wiped your tears as you spoke about your family, there’s nothing in this world I loved more than holding your hand and whispering words of reassurance in your ear, because I knew you weren’t broken, you were just bent. And I loved all your edges, all your roughness. Your imperfections were perfect to me.

 

7 Annoying Misconceptions About the Alpha Female

Alpha Females are often terribly misunderstood by Beta women and lesser males. When this happens, they’re called a bitch, whore, etc. The reality is, they will not be confined by “appropriateness,? and choose to be defined by their courage, bravery, and their decisions to go after the life they want.

 

Here are 7 common misconceptions about an alpha female that are actually pretty annoying:

 

1. They’re sarcastic because they’re mean.

Alphas are sarcastic with their friends because they’re playful and want to bond, not because they’re mean. Their sarcasm is humorous, not rude, by nature.

 

They like to play around not because they dislike people, but because they want to eliminate barriers between people. They would never laugh at you if they didn’t think you could laugh at them too.

 

2. Alpha’s are bitches.

People often confuse having a backbone for being a bitch. It’s very easy to get along with someone who is more submissive, a “go with the flow? attitude, someone who doesn’t open their mouth when they don’t like something.

 

But an alpha female will risk tension because she will not put her needs aside to keep the peace at any cost. If she feels disrespected, she will call that person out. When this happens, it’s easy to her a “bitch? a “villain? or a “narcissist” because she’s not easy and she’ll call you out on your shit, but the reality is she just has balls, respect for herself and her boundaries.

 

The Special Qualities Every Alpha Woman Should Look For In a Guy

Alpha Women

What Is An Alpha Female?

I praise all the confident, badass Alpha Women out there. These are women with a backbone, who stand up for what they believe, who aren’t easy— as in, they don’t just go with the flow.

They don’t let the guy do whatever he wants. You’ll tell her she’s ‘ride or die’ and her response will be: Where are we riding to? Why do I have to die? Can we stop to get food? Why didn’t you like my pic?

She is not simple, no doubt. She is a challenge for any man, and she demands more from everyone because she sees great potential – and that’s what makes her so amazing.

So who’s right for the Alpha Female? What kind of man can keep her grounded while still challenging her to grow and be the best she can without taking away her spark? He….

1. Knows how to deal with your temper or bad moods.

This is probably the most important one. Your anger can quickly scare and intimidate unevolved or Beta males, but the guy who’s right for you will understand that your anger comes from passion.

He will understand that you sometimes argue with him at inopportune times because you’re emotional and you care. And he not only understands, but will love you for it because he knows that he’ll never find someone as real or passionate as you.

2. He communicates with you.

He’s always honest with you. He communicates his needs – sounds simple, but you’d be surprised. The last thing a boss female needs is for the guy to not like confrontation, pretend everything is good, repress his feelings and then have it all explode one day.

Boss women are blunt because they want to avoid drama. The guy who’s right for you will understand that you do not like to argue, your approach to conflicts is more direct so it may appear like you do, but he won’t be fooled – he’ll understand that you want to listen and talk things out in a meaningful and real way so that fights are avoided, not started, and he will have enough balls to do the same.

3. And he makes you laugh.

You’re strong-willed and fiery so the most important thing for you is to be with a guy who can also make you loosen up. He can make you laugh in literally any situation, and even though he’s a boss himself, he doesn’t mind making a fool of himself if it means getting a smile out of you.

4. He likes a challenge.

Basic, simple girls bore him – he doensn’t want the girl who doesn’t get angry, who nods and laughs and is always comfortable. He doesn’t want the girl who let’s him do whatever he wants and wants to keep the peace at any cost, even if that means putting her needs aside.

Instead, he wants fire, he wants a challenge, and he loves and appreciates your fiery nature. He doesn’t feel intimidated by your dynamic personality; instead, he embraces it. And he actually likes it when you outsmart him.

5. And he’ll call you out when you need to be called out.

He’s not afraid to call you out on your shit. If you’re acting like a raging bitch, he’ll never be put off by it because he loves all the facets of your personality, but he sure as hell will call you out on it. You learn from him in many ways, but you never feel like he’s pushing you or judging you. You teach each other lessons that make you both better people.

This is the type of guy that will never let you jerk him around, and this is exactly the type of guy that you will never get bored with, either.

6. You two are moving at the same speed.

He’s as equally passionate and ambitious as you are. His eyes flicker with passion about a number of different subjects and the most important thing of all – he never gives up on his dreams or your relationship.

7. He’s balanced.

He is both passionate and grounded. A boss female needs a man who’s her equal, her partner, her greatest supporter. But she doesn’t just need passion, she needs steadiness too.

This type of guy finds sexiness in stability, and would never even waste a second of his time flirting with girls at the bar or leading some chick on because he knows what he has and how special you are.

He doesn’t make excuses. There’s never going to be a, “but baby I’m so depressed….I contacted all those girls because I’m…depressed..” He never puts his issues on you, and would never use his issues as an excuse to treat you poorly.

8. And he’s not a talk-er, he’s a do-er.

Boss females can see right through bullshit – one of their many superpowers. The most annoying thing to a boss female is guy who’s a talker – that relationship will end real quick. 

The guy who’s right for the boss female will be the one who follows through with actions, not words. Whether it be his promise to never do that thing that hurt you, or his plan to make his goal a reality – you know 100 percent that he will do it.

9. His opinions are backed up.

Another thing that annoys the alpha female more than anything is an idiot, a pseudo-intellectual, as well as their annoying political statuses on Facebook.

The guy who is right for the boss female will be the who has well-rounded opinions with factual bases. Being educated, sound and empathetic in his understanding of the world around him is very important to him.

10. He’s never condescending. 

You’ll never see what I like to call a “Miss America” Facebook status from him, a status complaining about how shallow and awful modern society is, all the while indirectly pointing out how amazing and intelligent he is by caring about “real” issues of the world.

He never bitches, and if he ever does make a status, it’ll be about what he’s actually doing to change things instead of making condescending beauty pageant statuses.

11. And he’s a source of comfort for you.

You never feel like you’re tiptoeing around him or walking on eggshells. And you know he can handle you. You feel at ease because when you’re angry, he somehow gets you. And knows how to deal with you more than anyone else.

He knows how passionate and sensitive you are. And he knows you get easily overwhelmed by the world. He lets you have your space and knows when to hold you in his arms.

12. He knows when to drop it and when to address it.

He’ll stand his ground when he knows he is right but he’s also the first one to apologize when he’s wrong. Though he’ll argue with you, he’s not unwilling to compromise if it means ending a fight.

19 Things To Know Before Dating Someone With An Outgoing Personality But An Anxious Mind

Outgoing people with anxious minds – or minds that over-think – tend to feel anxiety the most intensely.  We’ll never talk about it, but the truth is our self-angst is maxed out. Our personalities are confident, bold, calm even. But our minds are anxious and we require a special type of nurturing that you’re not used to, but it’ll definitely be worth it.

 

1. We probably won’t make the first move.

 And might ignore you the first time even if you do, but we’re not disinterested.

 

2. Be patient.

We don’t date just to date. Don’t let our outgoing personalities fool you – we can also be mind-numbingly introspective, questioning everything. Our over-thinking and our apprehension to immediately trust someone are, in fact, what makes us very selective about who we surround ourselves with.

To My Mother Who Put Her Dreams on Hold for Me

“Mothers and their children are in a category all their own. There’s no bond so strong in the entire world. No love so instantaneous and forgiving.” — Gail Tsukiyama

You were my first friend, and will be my best friend for life.

We go from admiring our mothers, glued to their side, to bickering and challenging them, protesting all their advice and warnings.

We then go from missing them boundlessly, beginning to appreciate them more and more, to finally adoring them again, unable to make a decision without their advice and wisdom.

You made me as strong as you are.

As I reluctantly left the nest, scared and unsure of myself, you gave me that extra push, the push I needed to make me realize that the world isn’t a scary place, but a place where you need to take risks to be happy, and you never follow rules people have cultivated just to play it safe.

 

You pushed me to take charge of my life – and at first I protested, scared of adulthood and change, resenting you for pushing me to grow up. But then I realized that you did it because you love me – because only when you take charge of your life independently, can you tap into an extraordinary life.

 

If you didn’t push me and sacrifice so much for me, there is no way that I would be here today – relishing in my independence and unapologetically going after what makes me happy.

 

To My Stepfather Who Chose Me Everyday

“No relationship is perfect, ever. There are always some ways you have to bend, to compromise, to give something up in order to gain something greater…The love we have for each other is bigger than these small differences. And that’s the key. It’s like a big pie chart, and the love in a relationship has to be the biggest piece. Love can make up for a lot.” ?Sarah Dessen

You’re the only man who deserves my mom.

So many men fall in love, yet don’t fight for it, don’t make an effort for it. They get selfish, lazy, they focus on the negative – make excuses for why they stop fighting for it. But you never let any circumstance ruin this – this true love for mom and this unconditional love for me.

Every day I see how you look at mom – you look at her like every woman should be looked at by the man that she loves. I can see how much you appreciate her – how you feel her love, her beauty; her genuineness that can’t be replaced. I see the way you look at her and it makes me believe in lasting relationships again.

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