Christina Smith, Author at Pucker Mob

4 Essential Rules for Having Sex on the Beach

First off, getting creative like this is a huge bonus in your life with your partner. If you and your partner are this fun and wild, then your relationship is great, and keeping the sex and adventure is in full force.

Sex is fun, but when you spice it up and add new locations into the already adventurous cycle, it is going to be mind-blowing. There is some careful planning that needs to be worked out. You need to make sure you are carrying all the essentials! When it is “go time”, you and your partner can get freaky, and have sex – but also keep from getting caught.

1. Different Types of Beaches

When you get to the desired location, the first thing you and your loved one should do is scout out the location. Beaches are all different. Some of the beaches are going to be a bit rockier, and some might even have a nearby cliff. I used to live on a beach that was sandy, but it also had cliffs nearby that were close enough that if an ambitious couple wanted to have sex, all they had to do was go around the rocks.

Of course, those with binoculars from the condos above the cliff could get the view of a lifetime, but anyone else would not be able to see a thing. From time to time you would see couples come from that area, but no one would flat out ask them if they were having sex over there. Check the little areas that seem slightly private, and you should also check out where most of the people tend to hang out. You can check into beach tents.

You might find a beach tent that is available for rent. The larger beaches always have beach equipment that can be rented by the day or hour.

2. The Time of Day

Obviously, if you and your partner are thinking of a nighttime fuck-a-thon on the beach, then that is almost a no-brainer, but you still should watch for a few things.

This may sound silly, but paying attention to high/low tide is highly recommended. That can not only ruin the mood, but all the items you may have brought to the beach will wash away, not to mention sand in places that sand should never be found.

Once you figure out what time of the day you plan on having your sexy sand date. Planning what to bring is going to be a very important next step.

3. Sand Sex Attire

The fun part of planning this is, really there isn’t a great deal that is going into this process. The most important part of fucking in the sand is making sure sand does NOT go into your partner’s vagina. That will instantly ruin the trip. You should bring a good-sized towel or blanket.

All of the intercourse needs to be on the towel or blanket, otherwise, just think of a very uncomfortable time that might need medical attention if an infection occurs.

As sexy and hot as it sounds with waves and sand all over your partner’s body like the movies portray sex in the sand, the reality is sand will totally fuck up your sexy time. An easy outfit for your woman in the sand for sexy time is a long sun dress. She will be able to wear no panties. All you have to do is hold the dress up.

4. Sexy Sand Positions

Since sand in the vagina is the major no-no you should think of some new positions or ways to please each other. A blow job is the easiest way to have sex on the beach. All that is involved is dropping to knees and sucking. If a male is hoping for some oral fun, then there is a super-naughty way to have fun.

Bend your woman over, give her a tug on her hair, and begin licking from behind. This is very exciting and a turn-on, because you can get a great view of the hole you plan on sticking. You can lick her into bliss, then slip your cock in her vagina or ass. If you are going for a missionary style of sex, then you might consider rolling her ass up off the blanket, because you want to avoid any little bit of sand if possible.

The goal is to keep the vagina away from the sand!

Always watch for people that might be roaming the beach. Most of the time people keep to themselves, but you should always be scanning the area.

Night-time sex on the beach is going to be the easiest, but try to watch out for noise. If your partner is a screamer, you might have to shove something into her mouth to keep her quiet as she is having an orgasm. If the first time doesn’t work, try again. Hot beach sex is a super fantasy and should be tried at least once if possible.

What Do You Really Want In A Long Term Mate?

Relationships and dating can be so complicated. For some people the whole dating world can be a huge cluster of meaningless relationships that go no where, but for the true romantics – they are striving to find the best relationship possible.

Is there a code or a checklist of how to make sure you are getting exactly what you want? Each individual person most likely has certain characteristics that define the ideal mate for them. The most important thing to determine is what exactly are you seeking.

Career Oriented Women

The biggest trait to expect for your career woman: she will be thinking about her work a majority of the time. Two committed people can build an empire together, because the general understanding of success can be appreciated. Career oriented people understand that being busy is important. It also can mean that quiet down time is even more important. The biggest complain for dating a woman with career dreams is being too independent & not showing a “need” for a partner.

Dating a Soccer Mom

This type of woman can be very interesting to date, because the soccer mom type generally is very simple. However, she might have a few tricks up her sleeve. You will always know when you are dating a soccer mom, because the mention of her kids will be a constant. Some men might get scared away from this, but some men might find the white picket fence dream to be a dream come true. Having a really good relationship is important for soccer mom’s. These women do not like to introduce their children to multiple men.

Seven indicators that help finding the perfect mate

Spirituality and religion – if these qualities are substantial in your life, find someone that feels the same.
Good morals – finding a mate that has the best interest of not only the person they are dating, but of human beings in general.
Family values – if you are into building a family or you prefer dating a person that is all about their family, you need to take the time to really listen to how the person you are dating refers to family.
Selflessness – this is such an important characteristic. Anyone would agree that being with a person that would rather give that take is a huge quality. Many people in the world want to take, take, and take more. When you are with someone that would rather give – hold on tight!
Chemistry – for some people chemistry just comes naturally. Have you ever dated someone that you didn’t even have to speak to that person, you just already knew how each other felt? That is wonderful chemistry.
Education and career – for some people this is important. If you were raised with this belief or if you know that you don’t want to live paycheck to paycheck, then don’t settle for less.
Time – NEVER EVER rush this process. There are plenty of fish in the sea that are waiting out for the same. It may take more or less time, but you can never rush the perfect love.

Analyzing your love life can be overwhelming, but the main thing to do is just wait. Looking for love can be frustrating, but when you stop looking and let the universe take over, you might be surprised to find out the perfect love is closer than you think.

A Man’s Guide to a Woman’s Inner Slut

Dating is thrilling, exciting, and it also means the potential for some super sex. When you start dating a new woman or “women??? the roller coaster can begin, because you have to gauge what type of lady you have in the bedroom.

Men naturally want to please a woman, but it can be challenging. There are so many forms of gratifying sex – men don’t want to get it wrong. The quest for “Does your girl have an inner slut??? officially can begin.

Past sexual experiences are always a great way to figure out what kind of sex your partner likes to have. The reality of sex is: women don’t always have decent sexual experiences. When this happens, it can close the lid of a woman with an inner slut. In the beginning of a relationship, whether it is casual or the foundation for something special, communication is essential.

A man must use his intuition to get these answers about how to please his woman.

Finding That O

Achieving an orgasm doesn’t just happen overnight and in some cases, some women do not get to cum. Imagine dating a beautiful woman that is so sexy. Your thoughts of getting her undressed to expose her pussy make you get the biggest erection. Once you are right there ready to lick her into bliss, she seems less than enthused. Laura from School of Squirt has great tips on this subject.”

What are you doing wrong? Is something wrong? Is it you? These are all questions that YOU are thinking? No – she has never had a proper orgasm. No one has ever brought this beautiful woman into a spill of extasy before. Her inner slut is non-existent.

Brighten your horizons by giving your woman a real orgasm, because she needs this. Not only will an orgasm have her begging for you, but she will open up to many more sexual activities to see just how naughty she really is.

1. You might try to learn a bit about her sexual history, but don’t go overboard about it.

Most men and women in the dating world don’t want to relive their past. Keep that in mind. Listen, hear, and get a plan to execute. Your goal is this woman’s G-spot. One thing to pay attention to: shyness. If you are with a shy gal, most likely she won’t be the type to lay on a bed spread eagle. You are going to have to ease into letting her get comfortable with you.

1. Confidence is huge with a woman and her inner slut.

The interesting part about men and women are what internally turns them on. For instance: a woman might love sex, love to cum, but her inner slut is turned into a wild animal when she is giving a blowjob. Don’t worry about HOW this happens – enjoy it. Each person is going to have something special that drives their deepest darkest desires within.

1. The aftermath of an orgasm.

You can now pat yourself on the back, but you need to keep up the momentum. You have only just started the journey to your woman’s inner slut. There is so much more to look forward too. Start small with any conversation about suggestions for “new??? things to try. You don’t want your woman to feel pressured. After all, she is still basking in her new glow of an orgasm. Let her wheels spin about what she wants to try next.

1. Keep flirtation flowing and open.

One way to show your woman that her inner slut is appreciated is to flirt. Many relationships are dull or tend to focus on sex. If you flirt and give little hints, your woman’s inner slut might just take over. You won’t complain if she is on her knees giving you a blowjob somewhere out of the ordinary. Stay fun, flirty, and keep a smile on your face.

1. Always REWARD the inner slut!

Make her feel wanted, desired, and a part of your life. Men don’t always do this important gesture. Therefore, women become bored or feel unappreciated. Your woman will enjoy letting loose and having her inner slut release once she feels safe with you & knows it’s okay to be a dirty girl.

Treating your woman right is one of the most important actions you ever do in the life of your relationship. She is going to appreciate the love, but she will also enjoy satisfying you. Every woman has an inner slut, because it’s fun, forbidden, and it’s a total rush. Maintaining that inner slut can be one of the most rewarding experiences you ever get to enjoy with your partner.