In today’s society, it’s the norm to want to feel and look attractive to others. There are many methods we can take advantage of, including fashion, designer lotion and potions, fragrance, and make-up. Nature is not really given the chance to play cupid, so here are some sexy ways to spark your attractiveness toward others.
1. Have an Orgasm
If you have a partner to help you in this area—great, but don’t worry if you are single. Masturbation will help you to discover your sexuality. It will stimulate your creative juices. It’s not desperate to engage in solo-sex. In fact, it has several health benefits. If you have never before experienced an orgasm, masturbation can help you discover how you like to be touched. In turn, this helps you become a better lover, as you can share this information, and even masturbate for them (a common male fantasy).
Don’t be alarmed by the statistics of men and women who masturbate either. Up to 95 percent of men engage in masturbation, while its 89 to 92 percent for women.
In men, frequent ejaculation through masturbation flushes out toxins that can lead to the development of prostate cancer, while in women they reduce menstrual cramps. An orgasm releases feel good hormones called endorphins, which relax the body and reduce stress. The immune system is also strengthened through the release of the stress hormone, cortisol. In small amounts, this hormone supports the immune system.
Don’t forget the ‘sex glow’ that an orgasm brings, which can’t be bought in a skin cream. Orgasms increase your attractiveness toward others by giving you a sexy glow from within.
2. Passionate Kissing
Nothing plumps the lips quicker than a good old-fashioned passionate kiss. You’ll find that your lip size increases after you’ve made out. Stand in front of a mirror afterward and see if you can notice the difference. Now you can save on the money you would have spent on plumps and glosses, and turn to natural kissing instead. Plump lips equal youthfulness, as lip size reduces through a lower production of collagen and elastin. Also, try tapping your lips gently to improve blood flow.
3. Let Cupid Shoot Its Arrow
Pheromones are abundant in all animals, including human beings, but we are more trusting of designer fragrances and pheromone sprays. Given the chance to work its magic, cupid can still help you to find a sexually compatible partner. If the body is covered in artificial fragrance, it loses its natural ability to choose an appropriate partner in which to mate healthy children. Remember, the skin is the largest organ in the human body. Whatever we smother on the skin is absorbed. Aim to use natural products, if possible. If you can’t pronounce the ingredients on the packaging, why do you put the product on your skin?
Pheromones are abundant in urine, perspiration, faeces, and smegma—the build up of dead skin cells that collect on the clitoris and foreskin. Some partners grow aroused from the scent of genitilia and engage in oral sex on their partner. During a workout, the perspiration released is one reason why we feel sexier during a workout. The body is working naturally to seek out a partner that adapts to our scent.
Since pheromones are odourless, how can the human body detect these and put them into action. This occurs through a particular organ inside the nose—the vomeronasal organ. When a compatible partner is close by, this organ is on red alert. The brain releases hormones to make you take notice of the people around you. This is the key to natural attraction toward others, even when we may not be looking or feeling your best. The human body knows what it’s doing, but we need to trust it more instead of putting our faith in the billion pound beauty industry who do not disclose most ingredients by hiding behind their trade secrets.
4. Self-Confidence is Sexy
Try not to be hooked on how you look in today’s society, as much of the pictures in the magazines are air brushed. Carry yourself with an air of confidence, as this is naturally sexy toward others. Find your own style. Yes, there will always be changes in fashion, but you’re investing in a system. Invest in yourself. Dare to be different. What’s unique about wanting to look the same as everyone else. Dye your hair, mix colourful clothing that fashionista’s state must not go together, or get a tattoo or piercing. There are many ways to make yourself stand out from the status quo. Once you find your look, carry it well. Confidence is sexy. Wear clothes that flatter your figure. Ask most guys what they like in a girl and many of them will say confidence. I know my partner does!
5. Go Make-Up Free
The cosmetics industry is huge. There are many ways to beautify our appearance, whether through kohl eyeliner, mascara, lipstick or gloss, and a flawless glow through foundation/powder. There is also fake tan for the face and body, and nail varnish to increase the attractiveness of the hands. Yes, make-up can enhance our features, but most men don’t want to be eating lipstick or gloss. They don’t want to find make up smeared all over their shirt during a long make out session. Try letting your skin breathe occasionally. If a partner says you’re sexy and attractive without make-up, accept the compliment and try not to worry about the rest of the world and its opinion. Be you. The more we display our authenticity and accept our flaws (everyone has them), the more attractive we become to others.