Taylor Swift's love life is a bit all over the place. She has dated more guys than most of us will date in our lifetime, however, she has yet to find the "one." From British celebs like Joe Alwyn and Harry Styles to dreamy American actors like Jake Gyllenhaal and Taylor Lautner, Taylor Swift has dated all across the map and still can't seem to land a keeper. So as much as you might think you're lacking in the love department, there are ways to have a better love life than Taylor Swift.  

While Taylor Swift’s love life history is extensive, to say the least, going guy to guy can be exhausting and take a real toll on your heart. Finding happiness and maintaining a good reputation when it comes to your love life is as frustrating as pushing the 'pull' door. 

1. Keep your love life on the low and out of other people’s mouths.

2. When you break up with someone, don't write a song about them.

3. And definitely, don’t write a song for every failed relationship like Taylor Swift did with her 12 men…

4. Keep it classy don't bash an ex on social media either. 

5. As easy as it is to feel jealous, don’t allow yourself to succumb to it in your love life.

6. Find who you are deep inside. You can't find a lover if you don't know who you are.

7. The one thing you must do before you can find true love: love yourself. 

8. Walk around with a killer confidence like Kanye West’s (even if you don’t always feel like it).

9. Make sure to doll yourself up every now and then. As Taylor Swift says on the reg, "you're gorgeous."

10. Then get rid of all of life's distractions. You can't focus on your love life while you're going through a million other things. 

11. Like Taylor Swift's ex-boyfriend, Zac Efron once said, you gotta "getcha head in the game."

12. Focus on settling down, not which guy to date next. 

13. And take it day by day, quit moving too fast with guys. 

14. Its okay to take things slow, as long as you’re not stringing him along. 

15. Break bad habits, like keeping your heart too guarded or not saying how you feel.

16. Kiss your commitment issues goodbye. Don't start dating unless you're ready for the roller coaster of a ride. 

17. And when you do feel ready, don't flaunt a new guy every month like Taylor Swift.

18. And the only time to say "Look What You Made Me Do" is when you are showing him your red cheeks from smiling too hard. 

19. Write him love notes, they’re a lot simpler and they won’t come back and bite you.

20. And even when you feel like giving up, remember Taylor Swift's album reviews for Reputation might not be the best, but that’s never stopped her from trying to find her one so you shouldn’t either. 

21. And if you find someone who’s very successful, don't allow yourself to be intimidated by it.

22. Try and build your success together. Be creative and try to grow yourselves collectively. 

23. Let everything that’s happened since Taylor Swift and Calvin Harris’ breakup be a learning experience for your love life and learn from her mistakes. 

24. And if there is drama surrounding your relationship, clear the air. Don't let there be outside sources ruining your love life. 

25. But above all else, always remember that you don't HAVE to be in a relationship. It's okay to be alone and take the time you need.  

All in all, don't become a serial dater like her. Taylor Swift has dated everyone (and maybe cheated on them with their cousins), but unfortunately, none have turned out to be the fairytale which has left her love life a disaster. 

Breakaway from Taylor Swift's bad habits and start doing everything Taylor Swift isn't, to find the love of your life. He is out there somewhere just waiting for your paths to cross, so get out there and go find him.

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Girls feel the need to show off things they have, not necessarily for bragging rights, but just so that people get a good idea of who they are and what their life is all about.

Now when it comes to relationships, some girls have a hard time getting their SO to take pictures with them because some guys just don’t get why us girls have to take pictures of, well, everything.

And when it comes to a girls’ guy, she just likes to show him off, that’s just the way it is.

There’s more to the act of snapping a picture than what guys think. Especially if it has just been a really good day in general, we want to remember it. Whatever it is, there is something that motivated the picture, and it’s important enough for us to want to document it.

But a picture of a girl isn’t just a way to capture a memory. It’s a way to preserve a million thoughts and feelings and hopes and dreams in that very moment with the man she loves. Believe me, she revisits pictures 24/7, just to relive those moments with you. Just to remember the good ole days.

And to look back through the pictures in our phones and see pure happiness.

Having pictures of the two of you together will make her feel safe when she feels like maybe you two aren’t doing too hot. She’ll be able to see the way you were looking at her, or how you were touching her, or even just the smile on your face cause you’re with her.

She will be reminded why you two are together. And why she loves you just oh so much.

These pictures speak to their soul and prove something she needs to know but can’t put into words.

Taking pictures with her is honestly a gift you are giving her without even realizing it. So just try and remember that next time you refuse or complain about a picture.

See the picture as the love poem you don’t have to spend time writing. The song you don’t have to dedicate to her. Or the love note about your love you didn’t have to rewrite a million times just to make sure it’s perfect.

Looking back, I was so easy to play. I was enthralled by the fantasy you wrapped me up in. I was a damn good girlfriend, but nothing I did was ever enough for you. 

There were so many red flags, but I chose to ignore them all. I thought you were a good guy and that I was just trying to push you away and make excuses to hide from my rapidly-growing feelings.

Boy was I wrong.

I should have listened to my friends when they told me that something about you just wasn't right; I was naive to think that you and I could build something real. 

But, I’m smarter now. I know that if I hold a grudge, I'll be giving you power, and I've already let you take too much. I'm done.

You could have easily told me I wasn't right for you and that we weren't going to work out. I would have a lot more respect for you if you did.

But instead, you played me. You should really consider acting because you're damn good.

But hey, I forgive you. It's clear now that you’re just a boy, not a man, and letting you play me was my mistake. 

You made me weak, but through your betrayal, I became strong. 

I'm actually glad that I got to experience how not to be treated by someone who (supposedly) loved me. 

In the end, you weren't a mistake; you were a lesson learned. I'm so thankful that I was able to move beyond you, even if my heart was broken in the process.

Thank you for making me realize that I deserve so much better than what we had. I deserve a guy that is going to love me unconditionally and give me the world.

I will never make the same mistake or be played for a fool again. I'll wait for someone who wants to treat me like the Queen that I am. 

Unfortunately, you missed out.

Us girls grew up watching the most amazing movies about how one princess finds her prince and they ride off into the sunset happily ever after. But lets be honest here, that’s not real life.

Real life isn’t all roses, peaches, and whipped cream (no matter how good that sounds right now).

Just like any good movie or story we have seen, it has to have some type of conflict or moral dilemma to be interesting so that we keep watching. And that’s exactly what real life is like, too. 

Real life fairy tales will be filled with those things we have yearned for. But they will also be filled with reality.

In order for us girls to find our one true love and live this magical fairy tale we all yearn for, we have to accept the truth.

The simple truth is that your Prince Charming’s out there somewhere, yet he won’t be riding a white horse… he might actually be driving an old beat up car.

Your Prince may have an apartment, or his first home. It’s not going to be this huge beautiful castle on the hill.

Unfortunately there will be bills to pay and I’m sorry hunny, but Charming most likely won’t have a big pot of gold to dig into when it comes time to pay them. 

There will be tons of things that will be different than those Disney stories we have watched over and over. But it can still be your type of perfect.

One of the most important parts of finding that real life fairy tale is that you have to pick the right type of guy. You have to find someone who will make a good husband, not just some guy who is pretending to live up to Prince Charming.

And don’t settle. You are amazing, and beautiful and you deserve this real life fairy tale.

Meeting you changed everything for me.

I was never a fan of the girls who spent every living second with their boyfriends. I didn’t understand how someone could make one person their absolute everything. 

I was always so annoyed when they posted pictures together every ten minutes. “We get it, you guys are in love and happy. Cool, now please just shut up.”

But as soon as I met you, I became “that girl.” 

I felt like a whole new person. I wanted nothing more than to spend all my time with you.

Our relationship taught me how to genuinely love. It showed me that it’s possible (and important) to find someone you can spend every waking second with and never get tired of.

I was finally able to see the type of person I wanted to be with: you. You have everything I need.

I can say with certainty that our love is one of a kind. I’ve never felt these emotions or butterflies with anyone else, nor do I want to.

I was waiting for the right guy, one who wasn’t trying to change me. I wanted to be loved completely for who I am. 

And I found that. You accept everything about me, all of my little quirks and even my imperfections. 

You accept me not only at my absolute best but when I’m at my worst. I’m by no means perfect but yet you treat me like I am.

You are the smartest, sexiest, strongest guy I know. You have every quality a girl could want and you’re all mine.

I will forever question how I got lucky enough to catch you. And I assure you, I’m never going to let you go.

You are one of a kind, an all around amazing and extraordinary man. I can’t wait to grow up and grow old with you. 

I promise to always be there for you when life isn’t the nicest, to hold your hand while we’re in public, and to always be your biggest cheerleader.

You are worth holding on to and that’s what I’ll do, keep you forever and ever. I will hold your heart tightly and take good care of it.

You know what they say, “Love comes when you least expect it.”

 And whoever “they” are, are so right.

I wasn’t looking for a relationship around the time we met, and I don’t think you were either. Which is what makes our love so unexpected and so real. 

We weren’t out searching for the loves of our lives, but someone we managed to cross each other’s paths.

And honestly, I never thought that I’d ever meet a man who completed me like you do. I never knew someone else could have so many of the same qualities as me and have so much in common. But yet, we are so different that we compliment each other.

It feels like we have known each other our whole lives. I seriously have never connected to any other person like I have with you. 

When I look into your eyes, I feel the connection. You are so special to me and I don’t think I could ever meet anyone that could even compare to you.

When I look at you my whole world stops. It’s like I become starstruck. No matter how many times I have seen you, the butterflies have yet to stop. 

You know me probably better than I know myself. You know what every face I make means, my favorite food, which of my favorite shows come on each night and so much more.

Our relationship isn’t always sunshine and rainbows, but man when it’s good, no one can stop us. 

Everyday you remind me of what a blessing it is to be loved by another human and why our love is so important. 

I just have so much love to give, and I am just grateful that I can finally give it all to someone like you. Thanks for coming into my life when you did. 

You have turned my life upside down, and in the best way ever. You make me look a life in a whole new pair of eyes.

I am constantly learning new things about you and it makes me fall more and more in love with you each day. 

Our relationship was definitely unexpected, but it’s single handedly the best thing that has ever happened to me. 

I now know why every other relationship didn’t work out and why I spent so many days focusing on just me. And that was all because life was preparing me for you.

You make me want to be a better version of myself. 

You make me smile from ear to ear, and I honestly can’t thank you enough for coming into my life.

I wake up, slap some water on my face, and try to find a decent outfit. 

It’s literally right then and there that I start the constant battle of questioning every move I make. 

What do I wear? Something cute and girly or am I just gonna bum it out? After some back and forth and 3 different outfits that I just have thrown on the ground, I finally have the outfit for the day.

I then head to work and lord knows that could go one of two ways. I am either smiling, acting like I live this perfect life with no worries, or I am a complete bitch because at some point I am going to get tired of faking it and just let it all out. 

It’s like I have those moments where everything feels like it is crashing down on me. Mostly because I take things to heart and make up dramatic scenarios in my head about everything. 

I seriously hate the fact that I am so concerned about how everyone views me. I wish I could just stop caring so much and just live my life without any worry.

Even on social media, I’m always making sure my image is good. Are my statuses punctuated correctly? Is my hair on point in that selfie I posted? Do all my FB friends think i’m weird because I share too many cat videos?

I am always worried when i’m talking to my friends and family about negative things going on in my life because I am sure that one day they will finally get fed up with my complaining. And then at some point be completely done with me. 

For some sad reason, I need constant reassurance that I am loved and wanted.

I honestly have no clue who the real me is because I am constantly thinking about who I can be or who I should be. 

I wish people understood how I’m feeling. Where every single day I do my best to make people happy and to make sure everyone knows I am on their side. But since I am drowning in emotions I am not making a single person happy, not even myself.

I feel ungrateful. I should be happy where I am and with everything that I have in life, but yet I’m not. I don’t know if I could ever be satisfied.

Every day I am surrounded by people who don’t give a shit about what others think about them, or don’t care what they wear or how much make up they have on. I envy those people.  

It seems like every night I slowly feel my happiness go away. I lay in bed and try to come up with solutions, try and come up with ways to just be happy. But in the end, I wake up every morning the exact same way.

I imagine doing whatever I want and not caring about judgement. That is what I dream about. I want to find myself again and just wake up and be happy. Not content, but happy.

One day I promise I am going to wake up that way. I owe it to nobody but myself.

Girls, we have all these thoughts running through our minds on the daily. There is basically no way to stop them from coming, it just happens. But it’s not right…it is unfair to ourselves.

We are so hard on ourselves and we keep feeding our heads a bunch of bullshit. It’s time to stop allowing ourselves to fall into these negative thoughts and instead walk with our chin up high. 

When this stuff pops into your head, push it right back out and tell yourself something positive instead, even if it feels forced. Soon enough this negatvity will disappear, but only if you put the effort into throwing it in the trash where it belongs.

1. “I’m literally going to be the last person in the entire Facebook community to get engaged.”

2. “I look like complete shit.”

3. “What’s that smell?? I hope it’s not me. It probably is because I’m gross”

4. “Maybe if I smile while talking no one will notice I am actually freaking out on the inside.”

5. “Every single one of the girls on Instagram is 10x hotter than me.”

6. “God my muffin top is pretty fluffy today. Baggy shirt it is.”

7. “The only thing that makes me happy is coffee, and I’m sure it would run from me if it had the chance.”

8. “Why am I never enough?”

9. “I’m so lonely. Everyone else has someone but me. I’m always gonna be alone.”

11. “I feel like I have no friends.”

11. “Why would he want me when he can have her?”

12. “Why don’t I ever shut up?”

13. “People probably think I’m the most annoying person in the world.”

14. “I am so sick of trying so hard to please everyone. No matter what I do, no one will ever like me.”

15. “Is the only thing I’m good for is letting people walk all over me?”

16. “If I don’t do my hair perfectly, this whole outfit is a waste.”

17. “I literally don’t want to see what I look like right now.”

18. “I’m a total bitch and I hate myself for it.”

19. “Holy shit. I’ve turned into Bridget Jones.”

20. “Why am I so hard to love?”

21. “I wish I wasn’t so fat.”

22. “I really need to start working out.”

23. “It’s the chocolate. That’s why I am so fucking fat.”

24. “*walks by a mirror* Omg, do I really look like that? Ugh…”

25. “I guess I don’t look as bad as I thought. But I’m definitely not pretty.”

26. “How come I looked so deformed in all my selfies?! Am I really this ugly?”

27. “I need to stop judging people so much.”

28. “I am so broke and it’s all my fault.”

29. “I need to stop being a fatass.”

30. “I have acne everywhere. People probably cringe when they look at me.”

31. “Why is my smile so awkward?”

32. “Why can’t I just have a gorgeous face and a bangin’ body?”

33. “I have a face only a mother could love…”

When these thoughts come into your head, tell them to pack their bags and leave. Never forget that you are enough, just the way you are. You are your own worst critic. All these things that you’re thinking? No one else thinks them.

You are beautiful, inside and out. But you’ll only see it once you allow yourself to love everything you see in the mirror.

Let’s be honest here, you’ve got some major balls. 

You’ve managed to look past my some-what average face, the over obnoxious personality, deal with me crying for no reason, and that attitude my momma gave me. 

And I am pretty sure that not too many guys would be able to handle me quite like you do. 

I over-exaggerate. I talk entirely too much. I get bitchy for no reason. I worry like no other. I mean, the list goes on and on.

But yet you still love me, unconditionally.

You have dealt with all my ups and downs, my hectic schedule, and even the emotional break downs right before bed. 

You handle me like a mother freaking boss. 

You give me pep talks, you actually listen when I ramble on and on about work and girl drama. 

You know every face I make, my favorite food, which of my favorite shows come on each night and so much more.

I have loved others before you but this time, I can reassure you it’s different. It’s real. 

I mean you know my Starbucks order by heart, and that I only say “shut your face” and roll my eyes when you’re right, and you know all of my deepest darkest secrets.

And yet, you still love me. Which is beyond insane, and very commendable. 

There have been times you’ve had to practically carry me emotionally because I was drowning in stress and never have you said it was too much or that you didn’t want to deal with it.

You’re my favorite human, and I’m a better me because of you. 

I absolutely love the way you make me feel and who I have become since I met you.

You’re my other half, and you are every single thing I lack. You are the patience I definitely don’t have, the reasoning I need, the strength I look up to, and the guy of my dreams.

I commend you for dealing with all the ups and downs. And for not looking the other way and maybe finding another girl who would be just a tad bit easier. 

You have stuck with me since day one. And that in itself is like a major accomplishment. 

After all the times I have screamed in your face or told you to just leave, you’re still here. 

I can never thank you enough. 

I’m not sure there is anyone that knows me better than you or anyone that would even take the time to get to know me like you have. 

And I can’t even express how that makes me feel.

Just beyond lucky to have a guy that deals with me just the way I am.