To all you men out there, yes woman like sex just as much as you do! Don’t think we aren’t all that into it, trust me we think about it 24/7 and we always want it. Here are some sure signs we for sure want the D!

 #1. She tells you.  This is the easiest way we will ever tell you. If we ask you to take us home we want sex. plain and simple.

#2.She asks if you live alone.  If we’re asking if you live alone, of course we want sex! Duh!

#3. She’s all about the physical contact Girls who want sex aren’t afraid to show it so if she’s physical and is showing PDA she wants it.

#4. She texts you at night. You men aren’t the only ones texting for a booty call we do it too

#5. She’s always looking her best around you. If were looking our best around you every time we hangout than obviously we want the D. Fellas it ain’t that hard to figure out.

#6. She brings up sexual topics Obviously we are comfortable with talking about sex and yes this does mean we are asking what you’re into.

#7. She grabs the “D” Fellas if were grabbing at your junk and you still don’t know we want the sex than you’re dumber than you look.

#8. Asks the girlfriend question. If we are dropping the “your girlfriend must love it” kinda thing it’s because she wants to know your status and whether or not she is wasting her time

#9. She’s constantly sending you wink faces If were texting you wink faces all the time than yes this is a sure sign we want to have sex with you and think about it!

#10. She asks for your number It’s not every day you get a girl asking for YOUR phone number so clearly she’s interested and wants to see you again. Take that as a compliment that doesn’t happen every day!

I think it's safe to say and can all agree…Fuck cancer!

We watch our loved ones be taken over by this incurable disease and we can't do anything about it.

Cancer takes over their body, changes their appearance, appetite and ability to do every day things. This is a slow and painful death whether it be physical of emotional.

At 15 years old I watched my grandfather be taken over by this monster. I watched him struggle to breathe, eat, sleep and this went on for quite some time and yet there was nothing I could do to ease the pain or make it go away. I felt helpless and yet he stayed calm and his normal self throughout his entire journey.

I often found myself questioning, how can he be so calm? Is he not scared of dying? These are things I feared more than him.

His response was " if I stay I get to be with my family and if I go I get to be with God. It's a win win situation."

I pray that everyone who goes through this battle was able to have the kind of mindset my grandfather did but unfortunately this isn't the case. I don't think there is one person who doesn't fear death and that's part of being human.

To all you pharmacies who are looking just to make money by selling pills, fuck you. To the people who have found a cure and aren't doing anything to save their lives and are only looking to make money, fuck you.

FUCK CANCER 

There once was a girl who fell in love with a guy who stole her faith in love. She gave him her whole heart, she gave all her time, love and affection to him because he meant the absolute world to her. But to him, she was just someone to fill in the gap.

Over time she started noticing that he was being lured elsewhere. He was coming home late at night, never wanted to spend time with her and the relationship was starting to fail. She questioned her worth and eventually, the truth came out.

She felt ignored and when she would question him he became defensive and angry. I guess this is what it felt like to be cheated on. How can someone look you in the eyes, tell you they love you and have no remorse for what they are out doing behind your back? This is beyond disgusting. So this is why you should only date the guy who's not afraid to wholeheartedly love you, truly and completely. 

Stay single until you can find someone who lets you go through their phone and doesn't get nervous browsing their history or going through their messages. 

Someone who values you more than just sex. Because you deserve the one who wants to spend quality time with you because it makes him happy to make you happy. And a minute with you can make his day. 

Don't date until you can find someone you trust and tells you their whereabouts without getting upset. Someone you never doubt is telling you the truth because you know he only has eyes for you. Because his actions speak louder than words…

But he's also not afraid to tell you how much you mean to him. And doesn't mind repeating himself over and over again, simply because he likes the way you look at him when he tells you that he loves you. 

The truth is, you're worth the guy that makes you a priority. Someone who's not afraid to open up to you and rely on you because he sees and values how amazing you are. 

You deserve the type of guy who calls you just because they want to hear your voice. The one who knows your worth and respects and honors you and what you have together. Because he's not afraid to give you his heart fully and unconditionally. 

There's a guy like that for you out there, so stay single until you find him. He'll be faithful and won't be afraid of commitment. And he'll be excited to spend the rest of his life with you.

One word. Depression.

This is typically something most of us won’t admit to… but needless to say after years of just not “feeling myself” i took it upon myself to seek professional help to see what was further going on inside my mind.

Admitting to a mental illness, well i just couldn’t accept that for the longest time but doing research and really learning and having an understanding as to how i feel and felt gave me a new perspective in life. I finally had the answers as to why i felt the way i did and that it really wasn’t my fault…

Dealing with depression every single day is a struggle and has effected my work ability, relationships whether that be with family, friends or boyfriends.

First comes anger…and there is never a warning sign, my emotions don’t build up like they do with someone who doesn’t suffer mental illness it’s in an instant i am furious with rage and could probably really hurt someone. So what’s the point in even trying when i feel this way and nothing seems to work? Not anyone sticks around, so once again what is the point in building relationships with people anyway?

These are just some of the things that run through my mind on a daily basis and i find myself constantly questioning why even bother when nothing works out.

I write you today not because i am looking for sympathy but simply to let others know that they are not alone and no you aren’t the only one who feels this way, it’s ok to feel sad, angry, unmotivated but i encourage you to talk to someone, we are all in this together and its time we step up to the plate and start making a difference whether you are the one dealing with depression or it’s someone you know…

Take a stand!

This is a trauma that has immensely impacted my life and has taken me years to overcome and share. I am a survivor, I am a victim of domestic violence.

He was the popular one when I met him, good looking and every girl wanted to be with him. He chose me, a young shy girl who kept to herself and yet he wanted to be with me? I couldn't believe it, I was the luckiest girl in the world, or so I thought…

In the beginning he was so very charming, loving and cared so much for me as I did him. I fell so hard in love with him. One day all that charm and love quickly faded away. 

Next thing I knew he was deciding what I was permitted to wear, choosing who my friends were and who I was allowed to associate myself with.

Over time things progressively got worse, but I was naive and I loved him dearly. Now he was controlling every aspect of my life. I was unable to go places unless I asked for permission and God forbid if i did not respond to his messages or phone calls almost immediately.

This is normal right? This is what real love is? He must only be doing this because he loves me so much and wants nothing but the best for me…right?

Funny thing is, I was only fooling myself at this point. When he'd get angry there was no stopping him…I was slapped, punched, beaten and thrown around more times than I can remember. When it came to sex there was no such thing as saying no. I can remember on multiple occasions where I would just lay there praying for it to be over.

This relationship went on for years. Every time I would try and leave, well it only got worse for me and it eventually got to a point where I was being stalked.

I finally took it upon myself to say enough is enough and made my way down to the police station where I filed a report on everything that had occurred over a period of the time that we were together. He was arrested and charged for rape and domestic violence.

We were going to trial, or so I thought. In the end he decided to plead guilty. We were in court when he got up and stood before the judge, he then pleaded guilty to all charges. He was sentence to two years probation.

To hear the man I believed I once loved admit to the charges was one of the most satisfying things I experienced.

To anyone who is in an abusive relationship, no it does not get better and no they never change they will continue to victimize you or someone else. You have to believe that you have the strength to get out of your abusive relationship. You will rebuild yourself after you do it, I promise you. I could do it, so can you.

Get out of that toxic relationship as soon as you see signs of abuse. This is an endless cycle. You are greater and worth more and no this is not love.

It’s ironic because you called me crazy, psychotic, worthless, and a bitch but those words become meaningless when they come from such a heartless coward who didn’t have the balls to stick around and raise our little girl. 

She doesn’t deserve the hell of not growing up with a father, she deserves the picture perfect life every little girl dreams of. Do you realize how crucial it is for a little girl to have a strong male figure through all stages of life? Or do you only think about yourself? 

The day I gave birth to our daughter was the most amazing experience I have ever experienced in my entire life. Looking into her eyes I knew she would be my world forever and I couldn’t wait to see the amazing person she grows up to be. I just wish you could’ve experienced this feeling too, but you were too caught up in your own world to care. 

It breaks my heart that one day I’m going to have to sit down with her and explain to her who her daddy is. I’m going to have to help her understand that it’s not her fault that her father didn’t want to be part of her life. That you and I just had different life goals; mine consisted of taking care of this angel in my belly and yours was to take care of yourself. 

I’m going to have to wipe the tears from her cheeks as she cries at night, wondering if she’ll ever meet you or if one day you’ll cross paths without even realizing. 

How can you sleep at night knowing that you are allowing an innocent soul to grow up and experience such heartache? 

What I won’t do is speak negatively about you around her. She doesn’t deserve to grow up in an environment filled with such hostility.  It is ultimately her decision if she wants to meet you, but I will always protect her from harm and that includes you. If you plan on coming into her life for a moment and then disappearing, think again. 

You will not tarnish my precious girl’s heart with your games. 

I want you to know is that the thought of you no longer shatters my heart all over again like it did the day you left. Now when I see your name, it doesn’t make me smile, it doesn’t make tears well up in my eyes, it’s just another name and another day. In fact, you’ve made me a stronger individual.

The hell you’ve put me through taught me how to be the best mother I can be with the ability to raise a precious little girl all on her own without a single fret. In the end, it’s you who lost out on everything and now you live with this regret and weight on your shoulders. I will always ensure our daughter knows she is loved by so many and her life is filled with nothing but positivity. 

On that note, I want to thank you for leaving because you made me realize the kind of person I need to be for our daughter and this is the person I’ve always been capable of becoming.

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Making a baby is one of the hardest things I have ever done! Trying to get pregnant can be an emotional roller coaster – especially when you’re struggling with infertility, Not getting pregnant when you really want to can cause depression, anxiety and grief. These are all things I have experienced and continue to experience. Infertility is very common today and the struggles are unbearable! This is a very sensitive topic and rarely do we ever hear people talk about this ongoing sadness for so many people.

At a very young age, I was experiencing unbearable pain and never understood what was going on with my body. Being so young you trust in your doctors diagnosis and follow through on what they tell you is best for you and can help. In my case i found this out to be false…unfortunately i didn’t find out until years later…

My doctor prescribed me with birth control at the age of 12, this was in order to help with the pain i was experiencing, As the years went by I started to really pay attention to my body and knew there was more going on then i was told. I took it upon myself to seek further help and was finally referred to a gynecologist after pleading to my doctor for two years. Upon my arrival to my gynecologist in a span of 30 minutes he knew exactly what was going on. My doctor diagnosed me with endometriosis, for those of you who don’t know what that is, it is bits of tissue that lines the uterus and grow on other pelvic organism such as ovaries or Fallopian tubes, this can cause trouble getting pregnant and infertility. 

I was only 19 years old when my doctor had informed me that this is in fact what i had. At 19 years old i’m being told that i will most likely will never be able to have children and that if i had any chance of conceiving it would be through In Vitro Fertilization and i need to start to procedure immediately as things were deteriorating. Before i knew it i was being sent of to Calgary, Alberta to see fertility specialists. After endless amounts of being poked and probed, the fertility doctor said that i needed to undergo IVF within the next couple of months.

No one every really explains the emotional, mental and physical demand your body goes through when you are undergoing IVF. Going through this procedure definitely took a toll on my relationship with my significant other and we struggled through it all, id love to say we got through it all and stuck together but unfortunately in this situation that’s not the case. We all wish for a happy ending but sometimes life has other plans. overall we spent around $40,000.00. Now i bet you’re asking, well did it work? The truth is, no it did not work. Two 20 year olds, trying to have a baby and spending thousands of dollars and getting endless loans just for it to not work was absolutely devastating.

Throughout this entire process all i did was lose hope and i really want to give up, i had had enough and i couldn’t put myself nor my partner through the pain any longer. In the end we decided to stop all treatment as we had been trying for two years at this point and it was now time to take a break, breathe and trust in our faith. I want to encourage you to never give up and trust in your body, you know your body best and let me tell you it was the best decision i ever made because not a month later we got pregnant…

Believe in yourself and never be afraid to talk about it, this is something a lot of people are struggling with and its time we have a voice and encourage others not to give up.

Love always

xoxo