45 Quotest To Fill Your Heart with Hope When Struggling with Depression

Sometimes finding the words to express how heavy your heart is, is hard to do. And what’s even harder is finding the words to explain how badly you wish for some sign of hope in your life that there are going to be brighter days. Depression has this way of coloring your world in different shades of gray, bringing your spirits to an all time low, leaving you feeling empty and lost. As difficult as it may be, when you wake up in the morning, remind yourself of these quotes. Remember all the hope that exists in the world. You can make it through this, you will make it through this.

“If only you could sense how important you are to the live of those you meet; how important you can be to the people you may never dream of. There is something of yourself that you leave at every meeting with another person.” –Fred Rogers

“It takes the human voice to infuse them with the shades of deeper meaning.” –Maya Angelou

“No matter where your mind might roam, your life is always happening in the now.” –Dean Jackson

“Even the darkest night will end and the sun will rise.” –Victor Hugo

“We must accept finite disappointment, but never lose infinite hope.” –Martin Luther King, Jr.

To Mom Who’s Can’t See The Damage She’s Doing To Her Daughter

I know you think you’re helping her, but in reality, your constant criticism is doing more damage to your daughter than you could even imagine.

You’re her mom, her hero, but right now your daughter can hardly breathe when she’s around you. She’s frozen by fear that she’ll do something wrong and you’ll crucify her for the millionth time.

Can’t you hear her heart drop when you tell her she shouldn’t be wearing that crop top, she shouldn’t laugh so loud, and she needs to find better friends? I know you think if only she’d “take your advice instead of rolling her eyes and ignoring you” she’d be so much better off, but there’s so much more going on that you’re blind to.

Confessions Of The Perpetual Backup Friend

I don’t know what it is about me, but I feel like the backup friend.  I see the way you all pick other people before me. Maybe it’s a subconscious thing, I mean maybe you don’t even realize you’re doing it, but I can see it and my god, I can feel it. It’s like you guys all have this bond, this close-knit relationship filled with inside jokes and side glances and secret code words then… there’s me. The peripheral friend, I’m there but not quite on the inside, at least that’s what it feels like.

1. Because I’m not a priority to you guys, I only get hit up to hang out when no one else is around.

I’m the backup friend, the friend you call when you feel too insecure to walk into a room of crowded people alone. And then I’m the friend you ditch the second you get there and find someone better (who almost always has a penis). Do you know how many times I’ve been left behind and you’ve all gone home without me? I can count on one hand how many times that’s happened within the last month. Like, am I invisible to you or just that unimportant that I don’t even cross your mind by the end of the night?

2. And honestly, it hurts the most because I’m the first person to make sure no one is left out.

I’m always reaching out to check up on each and every one of you, to make sure you’re OK when I see a gloomy look in your eyes. Shit, I’ve even been there to hold your hair back multiple times while everyone else stayed out partying. So, what is it about me that you just write out in as runner-up?

I don’t get it. I see other groups of girlfriends walking around, sitting at brunch, everyone involved and it makes me wonder…

3…. is it just me? Am I putting up a wall, so I don’t get hurt by you guys? Am I not allowing myself to fall completely into these friendships in fear of getting shut out?

See, that might very well be the case, but I don’t think it is because when we’re all together as a group it’s just… different. I make an effort to stay a part of all of your lives individually, at least I try to. I do all little the things that ‘friends’ are supposed to do like texting to see how your day is or showing up at your work when it’s slow, just to say hi. But it’s like once you’re all together, you let me slip between the cracks. It’s like my relationships with each of you fades the second you’re all together as if you treasure your relationships with each other more than with me.

4. I get that everyone has their ‘best friend’ and their ‘favorite friend’ but I’m starting to see I’m really not anyone’s favorite friend.

You probably don’t even realize how many times I’ve been asked to go shopping, get my hopes up so high that I’ve finally made it as the first choice, only to hear “yeah, everyone else was busy, so it’s just us.” I wish you could feel how much it hurts to hear those words… And yet, I always go.

5. Am I making myself too available? Am I around so often that you just assume I’ll always be there? Because I won’t.

Because at some point, people are going to walk into life and they will end up being the friends I always knew I deserved. The ones who actually care about me. They will want to call me in the middle of the afternoon on a Sunday to go grab coffee and talk, and not because no one else could go. I’ll be the first person they think to invite to their BBQ’s and pool parties. They’ll actually give a shit if I’m there or not.

And then, you’re going to miss me. Because what I have to offer you all is an honest, wholehearted friendship. I’m there when you need me in a heartbeat, always, and I never judge you, I even put up with all the times you’ve let me down and still had your back. But I’m not sure I can say the same for the rest of you… at least you’ve never given me any proof of you holding up the other half of a friendship and I’m not sure if you ever will.

6. So right now, I’ll be your backup friend. I’ll be there when you need me because I do see the good in each and every one of you.

But I just hope you know this friendship isn’t going to last forever and there will come a day when you need me and I won’t be there to save you. I just hope you’ve built strong enough friendships with each other that you can actually take care of each other… the right way.

You Should Choose to Follow Your Dreams over a Guy and Here's Why

If you’re single, there’s no need to stress over having a man in your life when you can be truly focusing on yourself. In fact, the man of your dreams will find it even sexier that you’re following your passion instead of living your life around his. Follow your dreams, stay true to yourself, and everything, including love will fall into place, trust me.

I get it, no matter how old you are, there’s always that lingering thought of I don’t  want to be alone for the rest of my life. There’s not a soul on this earth who doesn’t fear loneliness, the way it creeps into your system in your quiet moments, it’s ability to take over, and suddenly paralyze you without warning. For some of us, it’s part of our life goal to find our soulmates, to have someone by our side through all walks of life… and there’s no judgement here if that’s your goal, but it would break my heart if your success in life suffered because of that.

Because with relationships come compromise. You give up your favorite activity on Saturday mornings to have breakfast with him and he gives up staying late at happy hour on Thursdays to eat dinner with you. Simple things like that. But other times, the compromise falls on a much larger scale.

One day, he might wake up and ask you to move to a different state with him because he got a new job offer. He’s asking you to completely uproot your life just to be with him, would you do it? You’d have to start over completely, find new work, new friends, leave your family… See, when compromise turns into sacrifice, it has the ability to become life altering and that’s when I say it’s time to take a step back.

What about your dreams? What about the career goals you’ve been working towards since you were young? You deserve a chance to slay at your dream job just as much as any man does. You can’t possibly walk away from becoming a boss ass bitch now, your life aspirations aren’t fulfilled yet.

Please, don’t allow yourself to just be the pretty girlfriend who has really nice clothes and always looks so put together. Be the woman who doesn’t realize she has stains on her shirt because she was rushing out of the house so fast that she didn’t even get a chance to look in the mirror. Be the woman who works those long hours, gets that promotion, and takes herself out to dinner to celebrate. Be the woman who has been studying for so long that her eyes are bloodshot, but she won’t call it a night until she’s finished that last chapter.

Keep focusing on your career, on making yourself into someone other girls can look up to, then you’ll be shining so bright that the right man will come your way.

He’ll see the way your passions fuel your life and he’ll be fascinated by you. He’ll watch the way you don’t hesitate to offer to pay for the bill and you don’t get bothered when he has to stay late at work– because you have to, too. He’ll think you’re the sexiest woman he’s ever met and you won’t even have to try.

So for right now, be selfish. Be proactive. Be true to yourself. Submerse  yourself in the things you truly enjoy, the things that make you smile without even realizing it. Find your hobby, your Saturday morning activity, and don’t give that up for any man.

I know you probably wanted to settle down by a certain age and to not be on track for that can be scary. But when you follow your heart, you’ll learn to never regret a second of your life and that everything that’s meant to be will fall into place if you allow it.

You’ll meet your man when the time is right, but until then, be proud of your accomplishments, of your drive to live your best life. Strive to work harder, to be the ‘ultimate career goals.’ 

There’s nothing sexier than a woman who chases her passions over a man. Be that woman.

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This Is How You Know He's Not 'The One' According to Your Zodiac Sign

When it comes to dating we look for someone who meshes well with our personalities over all, I mean a cute butt helps too, but mainly we want someone we can spend hours with doing absolutely nothing. But sometimes, no matter how much we like the guy, our personalities just don’t mesh. And that’s where our zodiac signs come into play. Every zodiac has that one thing that sends red flags waving like crazy in their minds, telling us “he  is not ‘the one’.”  If you’ve ever dated the wrong guy, you know this allllll too well.

Aries 

(March 21st to April 19th)

The moment you realize you’re with the wrong guy is when you feel restricted by him. You’re not the type to sit and watch Netflix all day. Your life revolves around finding new brunch places, going midnight bowling spontaneously, and trying everything once. That’s why you need a guy who’s willing to throw a pair of pants on at any time of the day, jump up, and go on an adventure with you. But when your guy would rather do, well, nothing, you start to lose your patience. You’ll realize it when you find yourself feeling antsy and restless, on the verge of just leaving him at home and running off and doing your own thing. Boy, byeeee.

Taurus 

(April 20th to May 21st)

The moment you realize you’re with the wrong guy is when you notice how annoyingly lazy he is. And I mean lazy in every sense of the of the word, not just physically lazy but emotionally as well. You hate when you’re dating a guy and all he wants to do is play video games and doesn’t know how to pick up after himself. But what’s worse is when you are craving just the slightest bit of emotional support, and he doesn’t know how to give it to you. You need a guy who will spring up from the couch and run errands with you, a guy who will throw around ideas of what you can do this Saturday when the weather’s going to be perfect, a guy who knows you had a bad day and surprises you with your favorite dinner. You know you’re with the wrong guy when he doesn’t even try to show you he knows you on a deeper level than anyone else. A lazy guy is your worst nightmare.

Gemini 

(May 22nd to June 21st)

The moment you realize you’re with the wrong guy is when you notice you’re always explaining your jokes to him. Your quick wit is something to be appreciated not explained. It drives you out of your mind to be with a guy who can’t keep up with you. And no matter how much he means to you, you know it would be a long ass life spending it with someone you’d have to explain every tastefully sarcastic joke you made. You express yourself through your humor and allow it to bleed into almost every aspect of your life. So once you begin to edit it out of your relationship, you’re no longer being true to who you really are– and that’s not what you’re about. Good luck letting him down easy, you’ll probably have to explain yourself 110x before he actually gets the message.

Cancer 

(June 22nd to July 22nd)

The moment you realize you’re with the wrong guy is when he tells you too much, too  soon. You’re so used to living your life with a heavily guarded heart that when you meet a guy with absolutely no  walls, it sort of turns you off. You like the challenge of getting to know someone, deep down you want someone to work to get to know you to the fullest, so when his entire life history is handed to you on a gold platter, you’re less likely to accept. In fact, it makes you uncomfortable being around someone who’s so open and vulnerable. It scares you a bit to think he might be judging you for not being like that. So once you learn all of his ins-and-outs on the first date, he won’t be getting a call back. Sorry, NEXT!

Leo 

(July 23rd to August 22nd)

The moment you realize you’re with the wrong guy is when you start to feel too challenged by him. You’re the type of person that everyone likes, it’s actually hard to find a reason to not like you. You’re a natural born leader, and quite frankly the best at it, so when someone tries to knock you off your throne you start to get flustered. You need a guy who will have your back and support your decisions, not try and undermine your empire. Once he starts giving you overbearing advice on your career moves, how to handle your friendships, and family situation you begin to lose almost all attraction to him. You’re strong willed AF and any guy who can’t come to terms with that is most definitely the wrong guy.

Virgo 

(August 23rd to September 22nd)

The moment you realize you’re with the wrong guy is when you notice he’s a bit… sloppy. And not just in a household way. He’s sloppy about his entire life it seems. You’re intelligent, the type to have a five year plan that you work towards each day, and your attention to detail cannot be beat. So when you’re with a guy who can’t even make a simple plan for the weekend, you start to want to pull your hair out. You realize you’re not with your ‘one’ when you notice he lives his life day by day, going “with the flow,” and never really making any money moves that could better his future career or self. “When you start being successful at something, call me back.” – Bethenny Frankel.

Libra 

(September 23rd to October 22nd)

The moment you realize you’re with the wrong guy is when he asks for too much  attention. You’re a free spirit, in fact you crave being left alone to do your own thing and when it comes to relationships, you need someone who understands that. If you want to spend a rainy Saturday locked in your apartment with a good book and a bowl of ramen, then your guy needs to know he can’t blow up your phone all day. You get so turned off by a guy who’s constantly trying to see you, talk to you, and gets pissy if you don’t send him a goodmorning and goodnight text. This whole “puppy love,” “can’t get enough of each other” isn’t your thing.

Scorpio 

(October 23rd to November 22nd) 

The moment you realize you’re with the wrong guy is when you start to pick your cuticles when you’re out with him. You need a guy who fascinates you on a deeper level than anyone else, a guy you can’t take your eyes or mind off no matter how hard you try. And while this guy might mean a lot to you, the minute your mind starts drifting while he’s talking, it’ll hit you– he’s the wrong guy. You’re a very complex being and need someone with the same secretive yet magnetic quality you walk around with, not some vanilla guy talking about the kind of dog he saw yesterday. Yawn.

Sagittarius 

(November 23rd to December 21st)

The moment you realize you’re with the wrong guy is when he can’t quite speak his mind as easily as you had wished. You’re very open and honest, you have absolutely no issue telling someone they’re pissing you off or that they smell bad. But don’t get it wrong, you have a heart– you don’t say it to upset them, you just know how to put yourself first and take care of your own needs. So when you’re dating a guy who 1. Can’t tell you straight up how he’s feeling without overthinking it for 2 hours before coming to you and 2. Gets offended when you give him your honest opinion on things, you start to lose your sanity. You pride yourself on your ability of being true to yourself and unfiltered, so you need a guy who can do the same. And when he can’t? See ya, dude.

Capricorn 

(December 22nd to January 20th)

The moment you realize you’re with the wrong guy is when you begin to feel suffocated by him. You know he has a heart of gold and only wants to spend time with you, but your gut is telling you he needs to back the fuck off. You’re very much the independent type, so if you have a night planned with your girls and suddenly your boyfriend assumes he’s invited… you start to sweat. You need your alone time to unwind and recenter yourself after spending so much time with anyone, but when it becomes a pattern in your relationship that’s how you know you’re with the wrong guy. Sorry guy, you need some space.

Aquarius 

(January 21st to February 18th)

The moment you realize you’re with the wrong guy is when he becomes a little too spontaneous. You’re a woman who loves a good plan. If you have a day off you want to have your day planned to the T so you can make the most of it. You can take a surprise every now and then, but only within reason. So when your guy tries to be “cute” and surprise you all the time, you get a little impatient. And when your guy says, “let’s go do something!” and you say, “Okay like what?” and he says, “I don’t know,” you lose your shit. You crave having reservations, knowing how you’re getting there and especially how you’re getting home. Spontaneity is fun, but you need a guy who loves plans and schedules as much as you do.

Pisces 

(February 19th to March 20th)

The moment you realize you’re with the wrong guy is when they become completely caught up on something you would’ve let go of like yesterday. You’re a very ‘go with the flow’ type of person, you don’t allow yourself to get caught up on petty bullshit and you certainly don’t hold grudges. So when your guy becomes completely distraught with something that, to you, seems so miniscule, you lose your patience. You can’t fathom why he still cares so much and the fact that he can’t stop talking about it drives you bat shit crazy. You need a guy who rolls with the punches and knows that no matter what, everything will be okay. You can’t be laid back enough for the both of you…

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To My Bestie, You Deserve More Than An Unloyal Douche

I won’t beat around the bush, bestie, so here’s the truth…He’s cheating on you. I wish it weren’t true, I wish I could make it untrue, but the fact is… he hasn’t been loyal to you.

He’s not the man you think he is and quite frankly, he never was. All those promises he made to you, all those nights you stayed up telling yourself not to worry, trying to convince yourself you were just overthinking, well, your gut was right.

He was having the time of his life, laughing and flirting with another woman. He was ignoring your texts on purpose, turning his phone over, so his date wouldn’t see your name pop up on his screen.

It’s so unfair for you to be left in the dark, so out of everyone that could tell you the truth, I want to be the one to tell you.

Because I know who you are from the deepest depths of your soul. I know how much you love him and how you’d do anything for him – It’s just in your nature to put everyone, especially him, before yourself. You’ve been the best friend to me, and the best woman you could’ve possibly been to him, but all he did was take you for granted.

And the last thing I want is for you to go blaming yourself, thinking you should’ve known or seen the signs. Because believe me, this conniving mother fucker knew what he was doing. He played us all, which makes me think this isn’t his first time at the rodeo.

Please remember you did nothing wrong in this situation, you gave him all of you and he took and took and took until there was nothing left. You don’t deserve this and I wish I could take the heartache away from you and suffer through it myself.

See, men like him are manipulative and toxic. He knew damn well how sweet and kind you are and used that to his advantage. You’re the type to not be clingy, to not freak out over every little detail. In fact, you’re chill AF and probably the only girlfriend out there who doesn’t hover over their guy like a helicopter.  I just wish you had a guy who appreciated that about you, instead of using it against you.

And it breaks my heart that he tried to get away with it. Honestly, I think he would’ve never told you. He’s not a good man, I’m sorry but he’s not. He doesn’t have the balls to come clean. If he did, he would’ve fessed up a long time ago– hell, he never would’ve gone messing around with another woman. But here we are.

He doesn’t deserve your tears. Please don’t waste another second thinking about him. You need to cut him out of your life like he never existed. I know it won’t be easy, but I’ll be by your side every step of the way. You’re better than he ever was, finally I can say that out loud.

You’ll get through this, I promise. You’re stronger than you believe. Him, though? He’ll live a miserable life because if the greatest woman like you couldn’t make him happy then no one will.

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57 Simple but Complex Quotes That'll Fill Your Heart With Purpose

The thing no one warns you about your twenties is this confusing feeling that you’re not doing enough and that you’re doing too much. You want to live your life to the fullest, but it’s unclear right now what your mission is and where your life is headed. And the worst part is your life purpose always seems to get lost in translation as everyone tells you that you need to get your dream job, find your soulmate, and do great things with your time. But life isn’t that simple. You do have a reason for being here, you just haven’t found it yet. So for the times your heart is missing a little purpose, these are the quotes you need to remember.

1. “Begin anywhere.” – John Cage

2.  "Stay patient and trust your journey." – Unknown

3.  "Change the world by being yourself." – Amy Poehler

4. "Aspire to inspire before we expire." – Unknown

5. "Impossible is for the unwilling." – John Keats

6. "Everything you can imagine is real." – Pablo Picasso

7. "The past does not equal the future." – Tony Robbins

8. "Simplicity is the ultimate sophistication." – Leonardo da Vinci

9. "Whatever you do, do with all your might." – Marcus Tullius Cicero

10.  "Whatever you do, do it well." – Walt Disney

11.  "If you’re going through hell, keep going." – Winston Churchill

12.  "What we think, we become." – Buddha

13.  "Be faithful to that which exists within yourself." –André Gide

14. "Tough times never last but tough people do." – Robert H. Schiuller

15.  "The true success is the person who invented himself." – Al Goldstein

16.  "Problems are not stop signs, they are guidelines." – Robert H. Schiuller

17.  "Live the life you’ve dreamed." – Henry David Thoreau

18.  "One day the people that don’t even believe in you will tell everyone how they met you." – Johnny Depp

19.  "Life is largely a matter of expectation." – Homer

20.  "Be so good they can’t ignore you." – Steve Martin

21.  "Life is a long lesson in humility." – James M. Barrie

22.  "Never let your emotions over power your intelligence." – Drake

23.  "Life is too important to be taken seriously." – Oscar Wilde

24.  "Nothing lasts forever but at least we got these memories." – J. Cole

25.  "Life is either a daring adventure or nothing." – Helen Keller

26.  "Don’t you know your imperfections is a blessing?" – Kendrick Lamar

27.  "Not life, but good life, is to be chiefly valued." – Socrates

28.  "The quality of life is more important than life itself." – Alexis Carrel

29.  "Reality is wrong, dreams are for real." – Tupac

30.  "What’s coming will come and we’ll meet it when it does." – Hagrid

31.  "Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one’s courage." – Anaïs Nin

32.  "Nowadays people know the price of everything and the value of nothing." – Oscar Wilde

33.  "The bird is powered by its own life and by its motivation." – A.P.J Abdul Kalam

34.  "Only one life that soon is past, only what’s done with love will last." –Unknown

35.   "I can accept failure, everyone fails at something. But I can’t accept not trying." – Michael Jordan

36.  "Don’t be afraid your life will end. Be afraid that it will never begin." – Grace Hansen

37.  "What drives success, and the most successful students, is internal motivation." – Vivienne Ming

38.  "To live is the rarest thing in the world. Most people exist, that is all." – Oscar Wilde

39.  “In the middle of every difficulty lies opportunity.” – Albert Einstein

40.  "Life is like riding a bicycle. To keep your balance, you must keep moving." – Albert Einstein

41.  “It is not the mountain we conquer but ourselves.” – Edmund Hillary

42.  "Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away." – Maya Angelou

43.  “He who has a why to live can bear almost any how.” – Friedrich Nietzsche

44.  "Life is pure adventure, and the sooner we realize that, the quicker we will be able to treat life as art." – Maya Angelou

45.  “Defeat may serve as well as victory to shake the soul and let the glory out.” – Edwin Markham

46.  "I’ve never been poor, only broke. Being poor is a frame of mind. Being broke is only a temporary situation." – Mike Todd

47.  “If you don’t like the road you’re walking, start paving another one.” – Dolly Parton

48.  "I think people spend too much time staring into screens and not enough time drinking wine, tongue kissing, and dancing under the moon." – Rachel Wolchin

49.  “Whatever you can do, or dream you can, begin it. Boldness has genius, power, and magic in it.” – Goethe

50.  “Have faith in yourself and in the future.” – Ted Kennedy

51.  "Life is just a chance to grow a soul." –A. Powell Davies

52.  “It’s kind of fun to do the impossible.” – Walt Disney

53.  "Expect nothing, live frugally on surprise." – Alice Walker

54.  “Everything you can imagine is real.” – Pablo Picasso

55.  "Everything has beauty, but not everyone sees it." – Confucius

56.  “Find your purpose and fling your life out to it. Find a way or make one. Try with all your might. Self-made or never made. – Orison Swett Marden

57.  “Most obstacles melt away when we make up our minds to walk boldly through them.” – Orison Swett Marden

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If Your Guy Loves to Get Oral Sex but Doesn’t Give it, This Is For You

I’m just curious… when did giving a BJ stopped meaning that us girls would get a little somethin’ somethin’ in return… Like how often do you give your guy the best blowie, swallow like a damn champ, and then he just pulls his pants up and heads straight for the kitchen for a snack? Leaving you with a sore throat and a pulsing pussy. Like hiiii, your snack is right here. Well, science says if your guy loves to get oral sex, but doesn’t give it there might be a reason that goes deeper than you might realize.

Guys suddenly think that this is an OK thing to do. Mind you, if I asked my guy to go down on me, got him all hot and bothered watching me orgasm, and I just walked away after, I guarantee you he’d shit a brick. He’d pout and get mad, maybe even throw around a “seriously??”. You just can’t make this stuff up.

But it’s true, guys don’t just go down on a girl without expecting something in return. It appears that guys are less likely to even give oral in the first place, and news flash fellas: science proves it. In quite possibly the least surprising study you’ll ever read, 899 university students completed a survey on their most recent hookup and the results were… exactly what you’d think they’d be. With more than two thirds of the students saying oral sex was a part of their night, a whopping 63% of the men received a slobbery bj and only 44% of the women’s pussies were licked. Shocker…? No, not at all, we’ve all been there.

What is surprising, is how much of a ‘thing’ this actually is, and it doesn’t just stop at oral. Among all the fighting us ladies have had to do from battling the gender wage gap to making sure we “don’t dress in a way that screams I’m easy,” we’re now fighting what science calls the “orgasm gap.” In other words, how much more often men get off than women during sex, and believe me, it’s a lot.

In another painfully unsatisfying study explained by Psychology Today, they found that out of 800 heterosexual college students, there was a 52% orgasm gap. That’s 39% of women getting a big O from sex, and 91% of men. Must be nice to be in that 91%, us women are over here with our fingers crossed, hoping we come across a guy who actually can make us O. (Which is almost never)

And I don’t mean to point fingers or place blame, but if I had to, I’d blame the penises in this equation. Because men seem to have this philosophy that sex = penetration = orgasm for both parties, and they are sadly mistaken. 80% of women don’t orgasm from penetration, that means out of 100 women, 80 of them need to be stimulated else where to reach their climax. I mean, maybe men would realize that if they spent more time going down on us and see how much the slightest touch to our clit makes us go wild? Guys need a reality check and fast, because praying that our Tinder date knows how to get a girl off isn’t going to get us anywhere. Instead, here’s what we need to do:

1. Straight upaskhim to go down on you. 

Bring it up and often. If you’re sexting throw it in there, you know the saying “plant the seed and see what grows” – it just might work. And if he says no…

2. Dig in and find out why he’s not for it. Don’t stoop to a guy’s classic level of whine-like-a -two-year-old-and-storm-away, just ask him honestly what he has against oral. First of all, it’s a great judgement of character and second, you might be able to do something that would make him comfortable… like shower or something.  

3. Tell him it takes a hell of a lot more than just some thrusting to get you off… but like in a sexy way…

That means he needs to play around a little bit if he actually wants to make you O. Dirty talk him into playing with your clit while you’re on top of him. And if he doesn’t, you should 1. Not date him And 2. Take matters into your own hands. Ain’t no shame in doing your own thing while riding him.

Cheers to the fuck boys who think it’s okay to bust a nut and then call it a night– their rein is over. It’s our turn to get the big O with every sexual encounter.

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The Next Netflix Documentary You Need to Watch, Based On Your Zodiac Sign

Is there anything more frustrating than clicking through Netflix for what feels like hours, trying to find the perfect show to watch and there’s literally… nothing? It’s like we’re paying $10 a month just to scroll through hundreds of movies, TV shows, and documentaries that definitely suck, only to end up watching ‘The Office’ for the millionth time.  What you might not realize is, Netflix does have the perfect thing for you to watch and it actually has a lot to do with your zodiac sign. So here it is, the next Netflix documentary you should watch based on your zodiac.

Aquarius (January 20 to February 18)

As one of the most intelligent signs, you tend to get bored easily if what you’re watching doesn’t teach you something or strike a nerve with you. You’re the type who’s most likely at a happy hour with your friends, so the fact that you’ve decided to stay home and watch something means business. That’s why your documentary is Gaga: Five Foot Two. 

You love learning more about people, especially famous ones, and this documentary dives deep into who Lady Gaga is and what she does behind closed doors. And believe me, you won’t even want to get up to pee that’s how invested you’ll be.

Pisces (February 19 to March 20)

You are one of the good ones, Pisces. You’re the type who’s always there to lend a hand, who’s #1 priority is helping other people and making sure everyone around you is happy. And because of your truly empathetic nature, you tend to get upset quite easily. Little things get to you and stay with you for longer than most people, which is why you need an easy documentary to watch. The next Netflix documentary for you to watch is Virunga. 

This heartwarming documentary about people who go to extraordinary lengths to protect the world’s last remaining mountain gorillas is right up your alley. You’ll be smiling about this sweet documentary for days to come.

Aries (March 21 to April 19) 

Aries, Aries, Aries… the most stubborn and low key aggressive of all the signs. You’re a tough cookie, so your taste in shows and movies has to follow suit. Since you have a very passionate heart, you are always defending people to the death, especially the ones you love. You’re so easily riled up and because of that you need a documentary that’ll get you seriously thinking. That’s why the documentary you need to watch next is A Thin Blue Line.  

This movie will mean a lot to you because it isn’t just another documentary, it actually got an innocent man out of prison.

Taurus (April 20 to May 20)

As the sign with the biggest heart, you find yourself always seeing the beauty in the little things and little moments. You’re reliable, practical, and care a lot about the world you live in. You’re always looking for shows to watch that’ll open your eyes to new things, teach you something, or enlighten you. That’s why the documentary you should watch is Planet Earth: The Complete Collection. 

This is a multi-part series, so you have yourself a long road of binging ahead of you. But it is exactly what you need. You’ll fall in love with all the animals and landscapes and learn a lot about the world you’re living in.

Gemini (May 21 to June 20) 

Nothing gets past you, Gemini. You’re quick-witted to a fault, like literally, you have something sharp to say about everything. That’s why any movie that’s less than attention grabbing isn’t gonna make the cut for you. You need something fast-paced and hella interesting or you’ll just be on your phone the whole time, chuckling at memes and sending them to your friends. The next Netflix documentary you need to watch is Gray State.  

This shocking documentary is right up your alley because it brings you into the world of a filmmaker whose death, along with the death of his wife and daughter, spark up a conspiracy theory that will seriously get you thinking. You’ll be telling everyone to watch this one.

Cancer (June 21 to July 22)

As one of the most deeply intuitive and sentimental signs, you’re always looking for a show or movie that’ll awaken something deep in you. You love plot twists and surprises because you’re a complex thinker. You like to be challenged and taken off guard, only to bring yourself back on your two feet by allowing yourself to see the whole picture. That’s why the next Netflix documentary you should watch is Being Elmo: A Puppeteer's Journey (2011).

Believe me, it’s not what you think. This documentary isn’t just about the childhood icon of Elmo, it’s about the third puppeteer who performed as Elmo on Sesame Street and some not so G-rated things he was accused of.

Leo (July 23 to August 22) 

You are the warmest, sweetest sign of them all. What sets you aside from everyone else is how much you love the limelight and to know you’re loved and admired. But not in a selfish way because you’re never short on making sure everyone in your life knows they’re treasured. There’s something about making other people happy that just fills you with so much joy. That’s why when it comes to shows and movies you watch, you go for the light-hearted type. You love to laugh and want to watch something funny, that way when you tell other people about it, you can make them laugh, too. That’s why the next Netflix documentary you should watch is Living On One Dollar. 

This light-hearted, uplifting documentary will leave you smiling at how humanity can really surprise you sometimes. It follows a group of friends who move to Guatemala to live as villagers do who are down in their wages. You’ll be beyond inspired by this documentary, I promise you. 

Virgo (August 23 to September 22)

You are smart but extremely modest, well read, and you are meticulous, attention to detail is one of your super powers. Learning new things is a hobby of yours, that’s why you go for educational entertainment when watching TV, otherwise you’d just be caught with a book in your hand. So, when it comes to the documentaries you watch, you’re either 100% into it or 0% into it and finding just the right one can be a long process. That’s why the next Netflix documentary you should watch is Hitler– A Career. 

You’ll love how deep into detail this documentary goes on the rise and transformation of Hitler. There are video clips in this that will give you a completely new understanding of who Hitler was and just how powerfully persuasive he was.

Libra (September 23 to October 22)

You moody Judy, Libra. You are the sign who can be so peaceful and loving, then at the flip of a switch be aloof and completely shut down. But hey, that’s not always a bad thing. You have this undeniable ability to separate yourself completely from things that could potentially hurt you. It’s the ultimate defense mechanism. Because of this tough heart you have, you need a documentary that gives you the chills. Something that’ll leave you thinking about it for days to come. That’s why the documentary you need to watch is Aileen: The Life and Death of a Serial Killer. 

This documentary is sure to knock you off your feet. It’s about a highway prostitute who was convicted of killing six men in Florida between 1989 and 1990 and this woman will literally haunt your dreams.

Scorpio (October 23 to November 21) 

If there’s one sign that everyone knows the personality traits for… it’s you, Scorpio. You’re intense, passionate, have a huge heart, can be pretty brutal when need be, and needless to say loves sex. That’s why when it comes to your movies, you need something that’ll shock you a little. You’ve seen it all and have a very ‘been there, done that’ attitude to life because you have lived one hell of a life thus far. So, the next documentary you need to watch is Hot Girls Wanted.  

This unsettling documentary will have you thinking wtf for longer than you’d even imagine. It highlights “amatuer” porn and all the young girls exploited by it. Believe me, if you haven’t already seen it, you need to go put it on… like now.

Sagittarius (November 22 to December 21) 

You’re curious, energetic and one of the biggest travelers of all the signs. You crave adventure from the deepest parts of your soul, it’s almost written in your DNA that each day needs to hold some sort of excitement. When it comes to watching documentaries… you sorta struggle with sitting still for that long. And if it doesn’t interest you to your core, you’ll end up pausing it and going to meet up with your friends for happy hour. That’s why the next Netflix documentary you should watch is Amanda Knox. 

This is the type of documentary that truly gets you thinking. Did she do it or did someone else and she’s just getting the heat for it? A traveler like yourself will easily put yourself in her shoes: living abroad, meeting new people, insert murder and of course they’re going to blame the foreigner! You’re not going to be able to look away.

Capricorn (December 22 to January 19) 

You stubborn, indecision, good intentioned thing. It’s incredibly hard for you to pick just one documentary because you want to give all the documentaries a fair shot. But at the same time, you’re controlled and conscientious so if you get half way through a documentary and it stinks, you’d rather die than watch the rest of it. You need something with a strong plot line to keep you interested, otherwise it’ll end up on the list of half-watched documentaries you’ve suffered through. That’s why the next Netflix documentary you should watch is Audrie & Daisy.

This is the type of documentary where you’ll cry, you’ll laugh, and you’ll end up telling all your friends to watch it, so you can talk about it. The situations in the documentary are so far out of the girls’ control that it’ll drive you crazy, but only because you’ll be so invested in it.

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Dad, Please Know That My Depression is Not “Just a Funk”

Depression Explained

Depression is a hard thing to comprehend, especially when you’re not going through it yourself, but Dad, I need you to know this isn’t “just a funk.” It breaks my heart that you don’t completely understand what I’m going through, but I also sort of expected it.

Dark Places

I’m in a really dark place right now. There are times I spend the whole day curled up in bed, too emotionally exhausted to get myself to do anything productive. And I want to talk to you about it, but how do I explain emotional exhaustion to someone who’s never experienced it for themselves? So instead, all I can say is that I’m really struggling, dad.

 

Some days I can’t even get myself out of bed at all, I just don’t feel to have a reason.

Depression has infected almost every ounce of my life to the point where I can’t control it, it’s like a poison in my system that I can’t flush out. My mind convinces me that no one cares about me. And ny body tells me I don’t need to eat. My heart tells me I’ll be safe if I just stay inside my house and my head.

 

But the thing is, I don’t feel this way every single day. I do have good days

And I know that’s where it gets confusing to you because you’ve seen just how happy I’m capable of being. You’ve seen me on those good days and you believe that woman to be all your daughter is and believe me, I do too.

I want to be that woman who surprises you with burgers and shakes and eats with you in front of the TV, the woman who can’t stop laughing at your silly jokes and has so much to tell you.

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