I understand that sometimes girls are afraid to get into a new relationship because they are scared of getting hurt, which is understandable but what happens when a girl is scared to start a new friendship because friends can break your heart too?
Here you have a girl who was supposed to be your best friend. You guys have been through hell and back together. Break ups, family tragedy, boys, shopping, concerts, anything and everything you can think of. She was the one you would go to when you needed to talk, she was the first person you told your most important secret too! But suddenly things were changing. You guys were getting distant and you could tell something was going on. So you ignore it and just don't really read into it.
Until one day someone slips up and mentions her name. Might I point out it's someone who shouldn't really be mentioning her and you think to yourself well that's odd. Then once again you put it off and you hope it isn't anything. You start to pay attention a little more to everything. Now the person that had mentioned her is now distancing from you and now it feels like everyone seems to be hiding something from you.
You begin to get more and more suspicious and have some thoughts and ideas in your head that you are hoping not to be true. You start snooping a bit when you can and you are seeing things pop on her phone that you don't want to be seeing. Then one night you and your girls get drunk and things come out, and you thought you were being told truth and things weren't that bad in the end.
Days go by and some more things aren't adding up you are hearing and seeing things that aren't right. You are lucky enough to have a few good friends left that finally fill you in on somethings and you absolutely go speechless.(I was so devastated I puked my guts out) Everything you had suspected was true and you think how could a girl that is supposed to be your best friend do that to you. So unfortunately no matter how bad you want to go yell at her or go tell the right people the information you now know… you can't… You have to let it all play out itself out. And it did.
Yes, I know I haven't given any details of what happened and I am missing a few things that happened in the time line but the point I am wanting to get across is there is no such thing as girl/bro code and it seems that loyalty and respect have become a foreign concept in the world. Everyone is in this life for themselves. If this situation was the other way around I bet you I'd be dead. So excuse me for being a little upset about getting stabbed in the back and a little more furious when you emotionally and mentally hurt thee two people I would probably drop dead for. I know I should be mad at the guy too in the situation and I am. I can hardly stand to look at him. But she should of said no and told me right away. That, that's not a friend.