Don’t tell her you love her if you aren’t fully sure.
Don’t tell her you love her if you don’t even know what you love about her.
She has been hurt before, she has hit rock bottom. She has been broken, and she has had to pick up the pieces from someone else’s damage done. So don’t tell her you love her if you aren’t 100% sure.
Don’t allow her to fall deeper for you if you aren’t ready to commit to her and only her.
She is guilty of picturing it all with you; the home, the marriage, the family. Don’t allow her to picture something you aren’t also picturing with her. Don’t put her in a position to be broken all over again.
She can accept that you aren’t ready. She can accept if you aren’t quite sure about your feelings. What she can’t accept is another lie. Don’t lie to her because you think it’s easier than hurting her; know that lying is only hurting her even more in the end.
She knows some things aren’t meant to be. She knows some people fall in love while others don’t quite make it there or reciprocate the same feelings. She is aware that sometimes things don’t work out, or sometimes people just simply meet at the wrong time. To say it bluntly, she is aware that SHIT happens.
So don’t be pretend with her. Don’t play innocent and don’t give her mixed signals. If you aren’t sure, tell her. If you want her as bad as she wants you – make it clear.
The worst thing you can do to a woman is make her see a future with you when you have no intentions of having a future with her.
Don’t continue to knock her walls down if you have no intentions on guarding her heart. Don’t make her vulnerable if you won’t be the one holding her together.
Don’t tell her you love her because you think it’s what she wants or needs to hear. She wants to hear the truth, even if it hurts. She wants to hear your feelings, even if they don’t match hers. But most of all, she wants to know you care enough to not leave her in the dark wondering where you stand.