What you think is love, may not be that at all. We all know what it’s like to be blinded by someone we’re completely head-over-heels for. But, when we snap out of the cloud of bliss we’ve been living in for so long and look at the bigger picture, as it turns out, we may be dating a piece of shit.
1. He doesn’t support you or your dreams.
He makes you feel like you’re childish or unrealistic for having high aspirations and big goals. Instead of helping you achieve them, he breaks you down.
2. He goes days without texting or calling you.
If you’re not the one to initiate a conversation with him, you may not hear from him at all.
3. He doesn’t pay for you nearly enough.
Being in the real world can be expensive, but that doesn’t mean you have to pay for everything you two do together. If he’s not paying for at least half (or more, really) he’s not doing his part.
4. He doesn’t believe in compromise.
When you have disagreements, it’s important to know when to meet in the middle and work on things. But, if it’s his way, or the highway, it’s not going to work.
5. He doesn’t like any of your friends.
And he won’t let you forget it. He’s constantly belittling them and talking badly about them whenever they come up in conversation. Even worse, he refuses to hangout with them entirely.
6. He neglects your needs.
Just because they aren’t his needs, does not make them less important. Relationships are 50/50.
7. He doesn’t make you feel wanted.
If you’re dating someone who doesn’t want you back, that’s not love, that’s worship.