Autistic children usually show the same symptoms of preparedness for toilet training as typically developing children. However, these indicators may show in autistic children at a later age, and training may take longer. For children with autism, the average age of successful toileting is 3.3 years, compared to 2.5 years for children with other developmental disorders.
How can I encourage my autistic child to poop in the toilet?
This can be accomplished by taking them to the bathroom and having them sit on the toilet or play around it, with the lid open or closed, with their clothing on – anything to get them comfortable around the toilet. Take peeing and pooping one step at a time. Typically, a child pees first and then becomes comfortable pooping in a toilet.
What are the signals that your child is ready to start using the potty?
If your child displays two or more of the following behaviors, it’s a solid signal that they’re ready to begin potty training:
- Holding a wet or dirty diaper.
- Hiding to pee or poop.
- Taking an interest in other people’s toilet habits or mimicking their conduct.
- Having a dry diaper for a longer period than usual.
- Awakening dry from a nap.
What should you do if your child refuses to use the toilet?
While potty training your autistic child, it is important to be patient and consistent. A few tips can lead you a long way.
- Ignore mishaps and bad behavior.
- Consider your language and tone.
- Make your approach unique to your child’s individuality.
- Give your toddler control.
- When there is a power conflict, it indicates “back off.” It is critical to allow your child to manage their body and develop at their own speed.
Tips to Help Potty Train a Child with Autism
As with everything else related to autism, there is no one-size-fits-all strategy to potty training. Each child is unique and will require a somewhat different procedure. However, the following guidelines apply to most autistic children.
1. Consistency
Routines and rituals can provide comfort, especially when learning a new skill. Begin by observing your child’s behavior and schedule. When do they have soiled or wet diapers? Is there a timetable? Then, create a consistent schedule of restroom trips based on your child’s habits. This could be quite comforting for your child.
2. Provide a Tangible Reward
Keep a favorite treat or toy visible in the restroom for your child. When your child uses the potty, show them the reward and give it to them immediately. Use the same reward every time.
3. Make the Procedure Clear
Every step must be specified. Make a graphical chart of the steps involved in using the potty and display it next to the toilet if your child is a visual learner, as are many children with autism.
4. Get Help with Sensory Integration Issues
Your autistic child may enjoy the sensation of a soiled diaper or find the water in the toilet tempting. Working with an occupational therapist can help whether your child is seeking or avoiding sensory stimulation.
5. Dirty diapers will last longer than wet diapers.
Toilet training for a bowel movement can take significantly longer for many autistic children. After your child starts urinating in the toilet, dirty diapers can last for a year or more.
6. Try, Try and Try Again
It is common for children with autism to take a year or more to complete the process. Keep working and try to be patient no matter how long it takes. You’ll make it.
Consult Your Doctor
If your child appears to be struggling more than others, consult your doctor to rule out a medical condition like an intestinal blockage or illness. Your doctor may also recommend you to a professional for behavioral assistance or additional therapy.