Ok, so not everyone in the world is actually going to like you, we all know that. But there are people out there whose luminous hearts attract others like magnets.
We don’t try to, it just happens. And if you’re reading this, I’m guessing you’re one of us and:
1. You don’t have a mean bone in your body, honestly.
If people have a problem with you, it’s probably because of a mistake you made rather than you being a terrible person.
2. You try to dislike those who aren’t on good terms with your besties, but you can’t get past the fact that “they haven’t done me wrong.”
3. You’re not acting nice because you’re afraid people won’t like you otherwise.
This is just who you are.
4. You’re constantly being told you’re easy to talk to.
Sometimes people are thrown off by how easily they let you in. You listen well and are incredibly trustworthy, and it shows.
5. People tell you that you’re different from most people they’ve met but they can’t quite figure out why.
6. You can make friends anywhere!
In an elevator, a bar bathroom, a grocery store, you name it.
7. You feel humbled by your ability to accept people for who they are and not their past.
8. Your intuitive instinct helps you uncover the real person behind the masks people tend to put on.
9. You have high emotional intelligence.
You watch and listen intently and are able to detect a person’s emotional state fairly easily. If you really know someone, you can tell when something is off and you know how to use that information appropriately.
10. You know how to fake your way through small talk like the pro you are.
11. Others constantly confuse your kindness with a romantic interest.
“No, I don’t want to go home with you – I was just being nice. I know that’s hard to find these days but c’mon.”
12. When someone gets close enough to open up to you but doesn’t stick around long enough to create any sort of friendship, you feel hurt and used.
13. When heavy stuff is dropped on you, you take a while to process it.
14. You can be a little naive about others and their motives.
15. No matter what, you love who you are.
You love being open, letting people in, and making an impact on their lives because you know they won’t forget about you.