“Black as the devil, hot as hell, pure as an angel, sweet as love. – Charles Maurice de Talleyrand
Only a fierce independent strong-willed girl like my best friend can pull off wearing black all the time. She’s a bold fiery spirit who carries her no-fucks-given personality under her black EVERYTHING.
Her black wardrobe is the armor she wears to take life by the balls and get shit done like the boss ass bitch she is. She’s driven, unapologetically sassy and a true badass.
1. She ’s committed to living a life she loves.
She’s as committed to her black wardrobe as she is to get the best out of life. And that means, not being afraid to live on the edge and saying yes to new adventures. She’s the type of girl who puts herself first because she understands damn well if she wants to live her best life, she has to have a strong inner foundation to grow from.
2. She’s a big hearted girl with an edge… because she’s gotta have an ounce of attitude in her to balance shit out.
She’s the one who won’t hesitate to tell you straight up when you’re being annoying or doing something wrong. But she’s also the first one to praise you in every single one of your accomplishments. For all that, she’s got a big heart and a strong hand, literally and figuratively, to push her loved ones forward and keep them on their toes…And you just love her to death for it.
3. She’s super confident.
Wearing black clothing makes you appear more confident, but she owns it like no other. She carries her wits and charm with authority, so she’s always capable of handling any type of situation like a boss.
4. She’s a total people’s person.
She may appear intimidating as she walks through the door rocking her black outfit but don’t be fooled. She may be fiery but she’s an empath at heart. Being an egocentric bitch would just ruin her flawless black style. She works well with others and knows when to step down so other people can shine. It takes a lot of grit to be this confident. But she is, she’s self-assured and doesn’t need validation from anyone but herself, so she prefers to spend her energy on making sure she connects to others from a place of equality.
5. She’s fluent in sarcasm.
Because nothing goes better with black than sarcasm. It’s her quick wit that sets her apart from others. She can shut a guy down in a hot second, always having the perfect comeback for anything and everything.
6. She’s as methodical as every black outfit she wears.
You may think that putting together a black outfit only requires owning black stuff. Hell no, it takes systematic precision to be this cool. And that applies to everything she does. She’s the one that sets goals and makes plans down to the last detail and then, effortlessly makes them happen. Again, a total badass.
7. She’s kind of zen and a deep thinker by nature.
Black has a very calming effect, no shit she can be so zen and collected. Her thinking process is always detailed and in depth so you can always expect the best advice from her. She has an instinct for hitting the nail on the head when it comes to finding the right things to tell you or giving you a legit solution to your problems.
8. She ’ll hit you with the truth regardless of what it is.
A wishy-washy approach to communication is just not her style. I mean, she’s the girl who always wears black, and that’s as straightforward as anyone can be. And so it’s her honesty and boldness. If you want an opinion from her, you’re gonna get it, unedited, unfiltered, even if it hurts to hear it. She’s about the truth and nothing but the truth. Always.
9. She ’s the truest best friend you can have.
She spends her energy on what she values most. A girl who’s so loyal to the color that speaks to her the most is loyal to everything she loves. She’s sweet, consistent and committed to her friends and everything that she stands for. She’s the total boss ass bitch that you need in your life and she’ll be happy to share her black style and sass with you anytime, anywhere with arms wide open.
Wearing all black is not just a trend, it’s a lifestyle and a badass personality trait.