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22 Reasons You're Only Adding to Your Stress if You Don't Speak Up

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Day after day the world confronts you and throws itself right in your face.  You can either grab it by its horn and throw to the side like the Herculaen beauty you are, or you can you know… avoid it like that one acquaintance you see on the street but don’t really have the energy to interact with.

  1. You’ll stew on it.
  2. No seriously… all day you’re just going to boil about what you should have said at that moment.
  3. You’ll be stuck on it a like a vhs looping and looping into eternity.
  4. You’ll think about all the different outcomes that could’ve been…
  5. Would they have disagreed with you but your willingness to put yourself out therre?
  6. Or would they have crowned you as the queen you are…
  7. One thing is for sure though…
  8. … It would have definitely turned out better if you had gotten all those feels off you chest.
  9. You’ll worry that people will see you as a doormat they can step all over…
  10. The anxiety that this is going to be a new trend makes you start to feel sweat dripping down your back.
  11. You know that deep down you’re 100% a boss a** b*tch…
  12. … but that’s not how the rest of the world sees you right now.
  13. You kind of just feel like an a**.
  14. You’re also going to spend the day thinking about what sort of vindictive act that will launch you back to that boss a** bitch level.
  15. But sadly deep down you know that no level of sass is going to make you feel better about not speaking up in the moment.
  16. You’ll imagine what their slight “I’ve been knocked down a peg” cringe face would look like.
  17. And it feels so good to enjoy their diminished sense of self…
  18. But then…
  19. It all comes crashing down as you snap back to the reality where you didn’t say anything.
  20. All you can do is patiently wait like a tiger in tall grass for your next opportunity…
  21. To say what you actually think!!
  22. Reign supreme, boss b*tch, reign supreme.

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