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What You Need to Know Before Dating the Ambitious Girl Who Loves Hard

This girl loves differently than any other because she knows exactly who she is. She's never questioned her 'true self' because she's always been the strong, ambitious girl since day 1.

1. She needs some control in every situation or she'll lose her shit.

Surprises? No. Spontaneous ideas that she had no part in planning? Hard no.  

When she's comfortable with someone she'll let go (a little) but that won't happen over night. The good thing is she's the most reliable and dependable person you'll ever meet. 

2. If someone called her a follower she'd laugh in their face.

Because she’s deadline-driven, competitive, and organized, she's the one who delegates tasks to a team of people. If you go on a group road trip, expect her to have an itinerary planned ahead of time—mostly because she doesn’t trust anyone else to do so.

3. She shoots for the moon and won't settle for landing among the stars.

Her sense of motivation and drive is insane. This girl is her own biggest critic and won’t settle for a half-assed job. 

And when it comes to your relationship she'll make it the best she possibly can, give you her all every single day. 

4. Going to bed mad doesn't fly with her.

If there's something up between the two of you, she wants to solve it ASAP. She will be up at 3 am arguing till she's red in the face and her eyes can't even cry anymore.

But only because she cares so much about your relationship that she's willing to stay up and fight it out till you make up.

5. She doesn’t take ‘no’ very lightly… but she's trying.

She knows exactly what she wants in life if someone tells her she can’t do something, it makes her want to do it even more. She loves a good challenge, especially if it means proving someone wrong. 

But to her, you're the most important thing in her life, so she's willing to take a chill pill once in a while. But not every day… obviously. 

6. She's going to try and fix you, but only with your best interests at heart.

She’s made plenty of mistakes herself and doesn’t want to see you make the same ones. If you’re about to take a risk, she will surely be the one to point out every caveat. 

With her guidance, you’ll never wonder if you’re making the wrong decision.

7. Feeling needed > everything.

This goes for the both of you. She wants you to make her feel like she's the reason you wake up in the morning because she'd never let you go a day without feeling that. 

8. Your sex life will never be the same.

If there’s something you’re not doing, she will literally lead your hand (or face) where she wants it to go. There will be no passiveness between the sheets because she’s giving her best performance and will want the same from you. 

You’ll have plenty of moves to thank her for in the future.