Ever asked yourself, if the compliment you just received from another woman was sincere or not? I think we all feel guilty of feeling that way of doubt. Because we all were that one person giving a compliment to another woman, that wasn’t sincere.
We hate her because she actually is either a bitch or an absolute sweetheart (which makes it even harder to hate) , but she has something we want. She either has long legs, healthy naturally long hair, a voluminous body and greats tits. Aside from that she has a great career and makes more money than you. So we say snarky things like;
“Looking gorgeous honey, did you lose weight? So jelly!” … I really am . I hate you. Wait… who’s your plastic surgeon?
“Love the way you do your make-up, looking like a Kim Kardashian!” … What a wannabe, so not original… but I hate that it looks better than mine!
“Look at her stunning toned body!” She’s working it!” … I hate her discipline. Should have gotten me a personal trainer myself.
“Wow, you got promoted, congrats” … Did you give your boss a blowjob, or how did that happen?
“Damn she got some moves” … It’s like she’s been practicing in front of the mirror forever. Wish I had rhythm like that.
“Oh! The guy you’re dating is hot, where can I find me a guy like that?” … How much did you pay for him?
“I didn’t know you are a nude model, that is great!”… Slut! I’m sure you didn’t even get paid for that gig.
“OMG! You are so perfect!” … Seriously, stop being so perfect and to make it worse, you are sweet too. Like you have the ins and outs. I f*cking hate you.
But we also give fake compliments to sabotage the rival (let’s say a co.worker or even your best friend) for instance; she wears something hideous, but you tell her it looks stunning for her to wear it more often, which will give her less of a chance to find a man (you hope). Especially, when you look for one too and you two hang out a lot together.
“Sweety, that dress looks so stunning on you! You should wear it more often, especially when we go out!”… That dress looks hideous, but keep wearing it, you pull it off great. Just don’t expect a man to come ask you out, as long as you wear this.
Aside from the hating, because we feel insecure and are not happy with ourselves, we also tend to give fake compliments to women, because we are afraid to hurt their feelings (or because we don’t want to hear the truth if we were in their shoes).
For instance, someone who’s really curvy, like I mean really curvy. We feel somewhat obligated to tell them they look absolutely stunning when in reality we think they could do better and feel better if they put the work in.
However, I think whichever type of woman we’ll encounter, we’ll see a piece of ourselves in them. If it’s the hot, successful girl we look up to and want to become, or the manipulative brat that get’s away with everything, meanwhile you are trying so hard, or if it’s the real curvy or skinny girl we dislike because she reminds us, of ourselves. It’s more an act of self-hate and insecurities than hating a “stranger” per say.
Ladies, it doesn’t hurt to tell other women, how great she looks and actually mean it.
