You meet a girl and she's feisty and spunky — she's a real firecracker. The girl has a strong personality and I guarantee she isn't gonna change that for anyone.
If you've never been with a girl like this, know that…
1. She won't back down from your shit.
You fuck up? She's gonna call you on it. You hurt her feelings? She's gonna tell you about it. She isn't scared that you'll get pissed and walk away, because if you did that's your loss, not hers.
2. She's gonna challenge you. Get the fuck over it.
She's gonna push your buttons, she's gonna force you to face things you might not want to but need to. She's pushing you do better for yourself because she cares. Stop fighting it.
3. She's not gonna fake being happy if she's not actually happy.
She can't pretend everything is fine and dandy if things are actually shitty. She's gonna wanna talk about it to fix it, work it out, whatever. Why? Because COMMUNICATION is key. That's what grown-ups do, so don't get mad that she wants to fix it.
4. She does her own thing, don't be surprised when she already has made plans.
She's independent. She likes her space and her own time. Not even for the normal hangout with friends, shop, etc. But for her to think, process life, or maybe she just wants to shave her damn legs in peace.
5. She gets along with everyone, and isn't scared to bro out with your friends.
She's the life of the party because she's friendly, so she'll talk to strangers at the bar. She's also got a mind like a male in a female's body, so she can joke around with you and your guys and feel comfortable doing it.
6. She's going to keep you on your toes. She's fun and unpredictable because she's not afraid to venture out.
She doesn't have a comfort zone because she doesn't give a fuck. She might be the girl who pets strangers dogs while walking down the street or randomly make you a sandwich at 2 a.m. cause she's hungry and thought you might be too. You never know what she'll do or say.
7. She will walk away if she has to, so don't try to force her to or push her away.
She knows her worth, she knows she deserves the best. If you're not the best for her, she will walk away. She needs someone who's gonna bring positivity to her life, not negativity.
8. She can finance herself. She doesn't need your money or material bullshit.
Don't try to buy her happiness or make her completely depend on you. She wants honesty, loyalty, and love. She likes little gestures like you remembering that she only likes roses if they're yellow, she doesn't want or need a 4 carat diamond ring.
9. She's smarter than all these basic bitches you're used to.
She's gone through some life changing experiences. She's dealt with some shitty situations that have forced her to be the strong woman she is. She doesn't fall for lines or bullshit excuses. She sees through your facade, so don't try to play her for a fool.
10. She'll be the most honest and loyal girl you'll find.
She's been fucked over. She knows how it feels. She's been picked on and she's been hella hurt. She doesn't want to do that to someone else. She won't lie or cheat because she has no filter. She has nothing to hide. She's brutally honest and straightforward. Why would she fuck you over?
You wanna date a girl who's feisty and sassy, but you get butthurt when she's got more balls than you do. Don't get mad. Be happy she's confident with herself enough to not give a fuck what others think.
As long as she's happy, that's all that matters. Be happy she's so honest that you'll never have to guess if she cares, or if she's being sketchy. Be happy she gives a fuck, and be happy she's got a strong enough personality to be herself.
