A Virgo woman is analytical, a little stubborn and extremely romantic. However, not only do we make great friends, awesome partners in projects, great leaders we also make fantastic lovers.
Though there are a few other things you should know about a Virgo woman.
We’re fiercely Independent.
Virgo’s know how to take care of themselves, especially Virgo women. We don’t need someone to take care of us; we do that on our own and very well.
We work hard for the things we want, we pay our bills and we play hard. Don’t take it the wrong way if we have a hard time breaking away from it and letting you do things for us, it’s not that we don’t appreciate it, we’re just not used to it.
We’re over-thinkers.
Seriously it’s one of our worst habits. We have a tendency to overthink anything and everything, from something minuscule as someone not responding to a text message to something big and life altering.
You have to be patient with us, we aren’t trying to blow things out of proportion it’s just sometimes our minds get ten steps ahead and not always in the best way. Working on slowing down and thinking things through productively is something we have to work on.
We’re extremely generous and helpful.
The shirt off our back, you need it, you got it. You need help moving, a shoulder to cry on? We will be there in a heartbeat, no questions asked. If you are in a pinch and scared to ask for help please don’t be.
We have a tendency to put everyone before ourselves, some may see that as a bad trait and could be easily taken advantage of but we can’t help it, it’s just in our nature.
We win the award for best listener.
Whether you need to vent about a terrible exam you took that day, your parents being on your case or that boy who broke your heart we’re here to listen.
We’re not going to judge, if you want to cry, scream yell or eat a pint of ice cream go ahead. We’ll be right there with you through it all because we know what it’s like to be upset.
The Queen of stubbornness is a Virgo.
Being wrong isn’t something we will openly admit to being.
We’re difficult and stubborn and it isn’t recommended to tell us that we’re being stubborn because that will just increase the amount of stubbornness you’re already witnessing. Trust me it won’t be a pretty sight.
Then we may get upset and Virgo women upset can lead to disaster. At this point you may want to take shelter.
We’re extremely loyal; if you are important to us we’ll show it.
You don’t have to worry that when we go out with the girls if the guy at the bar is going to catch our eye.
If we’ve dedicated ourselves to being with you, you’re whom we’re coming home to at night. If we declare you a friend whether we’ve talked in hours, days, weeks, months or years we’re there if you need us.
That loyalty continues even if we aren’t speaking. When we let you into our heart, you stay there, whether you removed yourself from our life or we’re the best of friends.
You call it OCD or a being a perfectionist we call it our own personal misery.
We have a problem, trust me we know, and we won’t admit it. We want things to be organized, our rooms, our lives or plans or anything we do.
Which means when we’re planning a surprise for someone or trying to do something nice for them we strive to make it the best it could be and don’t accept mediocre for anything.
We tell it like it is.
If there’s something you’re wrestling with and you need advice, come to us. We won’t sugar coat it, not because we enjoy being the asshole but because we care.
We’ll tell you if the guy you think you’re head over heels in love with is a jerk. We’ll tell you that moving across the country is a bad idea, or that dying your hair won’t fix the situation.
We’ll also help you figure out a better solution because that’s what we do, we’re problem solvers.
We’re our biggest critics.
You may tell us we look beautiful but we’ve told ourselves we look sloppy five times before you said anything.
When we do something wrong, we’re automatically critiqued ourselves right away. We don’t accept defeat easily and even though we know we can do better and we’re being encouraged it takes a little while for us to agree with it.
Even when we do something amazing and we’re proud of it, be patient with us because we appreciate the praise and it makes us feel better when we’re struggling on the inside.
You won’t find a better girlfriend to love and care for you.
Virgo women thrive in relationships. We feel most comfortable when we’ve bonded with someone who likes the same things that we like. We also like the challenge or learning new things with someone who likes opposite things and has different ideas.
When we find an intelligent, funny man who is just as stubborn as we are we love the push. We do romance like no other, we leave you cute reminders that we care and you won’t have to worry cause we’ll always be there.
Since we’re perfectionist and stubborn we tend to strive to be the best girlfriend we can be, whether it’s a chill night of Netflix and cupcakes or a night on the town, your Virgo woman will never fail to amaze you.
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