When a guy asks me if I’ve ever done butt stuff, and I answer yes it’s like they’ve never come across a girl not only willing to do it but also a girl who enjoys it.
Apparently I’m some mythical creature every guy has been looking for when it comes to this.
Most girls cringe when they hear the word “anal” and immediately resist any suggestion of it but I can tell you this… if you’re turned on enough and stop thinking about how it’s “gross” then you would probably enjoy it as much as I do.
I will admit the first time I did it, it was painful and not as enjoyable as I thought it would be but after giving it a chance, I can’t get enough. So c’mon (as every guy begs you), just give it a chance.
1. First step… Get so turned on you won’t second guess it
You need to be as horny as possible. If you’re not into it, just like every other sex act, it won’t be enjoyable. It’s okay to start with regular sex and work your way up.
2. Dip your toe in the water first… Don’t just jump right in
Let him finger your ass or use a toy if you’re looking at his dick wondering how that will fit in there. It’s okay to be nervous.
3. Lube is your best friend
If you try to go about doing any butt stuff without lube, I am telling you right now that you will keel over, crying in the worst pain you’ve ever felt and you will literally come close to death by dick and never ever do it again. Trust me on this one, I’ve learned the hard way.
4. You have to be undeniably comfortable with your partner
If you’re not comfortable, then you won’t enjoy it because all you will be thinking about is how his dick is in your ass and it’s your ass and that this is wrong, when it’s not.
5. Be prepared for the worst but hope for the best
If you set your expectations low and mentally prepare yourself for the worst of the worst, then you will be surprised when you actually enjoy it and you’ll want to explore more and more.
6. Relax!
Let your muscle relax and let him take control. It’s okay to be submissive every once in a while.
7. Know that he’s super into you
He’ll find it super attractive that you’re stepping out of your comfort zone and willing to try something new and he’ll probably want to repay you with a favor… So get thinking of what you’ve always wanted to try but were too afraid to ask for.
8. Don’t hate it just because everyone else does
It’s okay to enjoy something that others hate.. They’re missing out on some amazing sex.
9. When he asks you where to cum..
For someone who always makes the guy pull out, it’s amazing to actually let them cum inside of you because you both get to climax together. You’ll feel like the world has stopped.
10. Try several positions until you know how you like it
It may be new to you or even both of you so experiment with it until you find the position you’re most comfortable with and that feels the best.
11. Your ass is a great erogenous zone
It’s amazing how many nerves are in and around your ass.. Let him explore you.
So get thinking of some things you want to try in bed that he might object to because after having butt sex, he’s bound to be wrapped around your little finger.
