11 Ways You Love Differently When You Find the One You'll Grow Old With

Anyone can fall in love, but when you find the right person it is a different love than you have ever experienced. Everything will click and you’ll realize this is how you want to feel for the rest of your life.

They double as your bae and your best friend.

You two are two peas in a pod when it comes to outings and social gatherings. Even the dullest of occasions are made better because you have each other to make fun of everything with.

No matter how much time has passed, you still get butterflies.

You’ve seen each other naked literally thousands of times, and yet when they walk in the room a part of you still gets that bubbly feeling you got when you first started talking.

You are your true self around them always.

Whether it comes to having heart to hearts about your past or just acting silly in your sweats… you never have to put up a front or act any different than who you truly are.

Just the sound of their voice can make you feel a million times calmer.

In any situation, whether you feel uncomfortable or just on edge, they are always the one to keep you breathing steadily just by their presence. 

The sex is unreal.

Toe curling, heavy breathing, cover-your-mouth-so-the-neighbors-don’t-hear sex.

You undoubtedly trust each other. Period.

You have never felt the need to creep on their phone while they are in the shower or doubt your stance in the relationship. You are always on solid ground.

If you could take their pain away and feel it yourself you would.

When they are hurt emotionally or physically, your instincts to take care of them immediately kick in. Their happiness is your happiness and their pain is your pain.

You’re not afraid to tell them what’s on your mind.

You have no problem communicating with each other about your feelings and talk about ways to strengthen your relationship even more.

You NEVER have/nor ever will treat each other poorly.

Never. Ever. Period.

Compromise comes naturally because you just want to be with them.

Whether it’s a big move across the country for jobs or something as simple as buying gluten free products for their diet… it doesn’t even phase you, because all you want is to go through life with them, no matter what you have to put up with or give up.

You just know. 

When you know, you know. You know?

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Stacie Lee

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