We all know that if he/she really is “the one,” then it has to feel like it. But sometimes, the signs aren’t obvious that you aren’t going to work out. Watch out for these 30 signs that your relationship may not be as perfect as you think:
1. Your significant other wants to know where you are 24/7.
2. You can’t trust your lover to go to a party without you.
3. Your boyfriend/girlfriend expects you to constantly post about him/her on social media.
4. You or your significant other want to spend every moment together.
5. Either you or your lover needs a hobby.
6. You always argue over who’s right and who’s wrong and keep score.
7. You argue a lot in general.
8. Because of jealousy, you’re constantly being questioned about the people you hang out with.
9. You feel like you have to be a different person in your relationship.
10. You feel like you don’t get any say in your relationship.
11. You never hear back from your boyfriend/girlfriend.
12. Everything seems to always be your fault.
13. You catch your lover lying to you.
14. You both never have deep conversations.
15. Your future with your significant lover is uncertain.
16. You’re being compared to others.
17. You’re expected to act a certain way.
18. He/she gets jealous when you’re with friends.
19. Your partner brings up old mistakes and old arguments.
20. He/she doesn’t care about your goals or passions.
21. Your significant other ignores you when you’re together.
22. He/she is physically, sexually and/or emotionally abusive.
23. Your partner can’t respect some of your beliefs.
24. Your boyfriend/girlfriend only seems interested in sex.
25. He/she lets their friends and family control their decisions within the relationship.
26. His/her family or friends don’t like you.
27. Your friends/family don’t like your partner.
28. Your partner doesn’t seem to care about spending time with you.
29. Your boyfriend/girlfriend shares everything in your relationship with her friends and family.
30. You don’t feel comfortable opening up to your partner.
