Before I met my fiance… I had a horrible experience with dating. It just sucks… especially when you are in college.
College boys are the worst. Not all of them, but the ones where they are just there to have a good time. Good times to them meant how many girls they can get to fall for their charming ways.
Here are five types of boys you might come across while starting your new beginning at college:
1. I don’t want a girlfriend, but, I’ll continue to be your “friend”
Run fast and fast as you can. That’s an excuse for this guy to keep you close so in case he gets lonely he can call you up, but he has no intentions of keeping you around. It’s not worth the temporary friendship. We all know that no good comes from a man who thinks that a friendship can remain after something already took place between the two of you.
2. The I’m Graduating Soon Type of Guy
If he ever said ” Well, I don’t think we should start a relationship because I’ll be graduating soon anyways and there’s no point”. That’s just an excuse and a very well played one. I find it hard to believe that men take the time to think about the future that far in before you even start dating the person. I mean it could be true… but if he thought there was a deep connection with you then he would find any way possible to give it a try.
3. Acts Sweet and Sensitive Around You…Friends Come Around and He’s a Different Person
It’s not only college men that do this, it’s basically every male of every age. For some reason, males find it so bad to act like the sweet guy he is to you when his friends start to appear. I get it.. The whole macho men act, but I’ll let you in on a little secret… you want to impress a woman, act like that sweet guy you do when it’s just you and her when your friends are around and I promise you’ll have her whole heart. Every woman just wants an honest man who will be open and sweet even when his friends come around.
4. Plays Every Sport I Must be the Most Desired Guy
That’s cool that you play every sport and you’re athletic.. but that don’t impress us much. Desirability goes beyond athletics and the sport you play. Playing a sport doesn’t give you the right to have the excuse to treat every girl that does show interest like they are the lucky ones. When your 40 and you are no longer the big show on campus, then what do you have to impress us? (I get that not every athletic college guy acts this way… but the majority I have seen so far… well, they are just what I described).
5. Thinks He Needs to Meet Tons of Girls Because “It’s College”
Here’s the thing, college is meant for an education and a career. It’s about growing up and learning new experiences. But, you don’t need to learn new experiences by learning every girl you see. To each it’s own, but I find the guys who are dedicated to taking their time to finding that right girl by taking them on actual dates instead of just “hanging out at each other rooms” are more attractive. Needing to meet a ton of girls to fulfill your college experience is not the right way to win your way to a girl’s heart. If you are going to bring us into this game of yours, please at least let it be a two player game, you know… one on one. After all, this is our college experience too and we don’t have time to sit around and wonder if there are more than one of us playing to win your heart.
Just a Note: I did not mean to offend anyone in this list of mine and I do not think every male is like this. I’m just giving every woman a heads up before they begin college or are currently in college… because there are some men like this that do exist and you do not deserve to be caught up in their games. We deserve to find the ones that do deserve our attention. <3