I love men and I love women. I also love sex with both, and threesomes provide the best of both worlds.
If you've never had a threesome, I highly recommend giving it some thought, because having another girl in the bedroom definitely has its perks.
1. Two to tease and please your man.
Men are highly visual, and the sight of you kissing and caressing another woman can be a major turn on. The look on a guy's face when he sees you hungrily and passionately suck on a hot chick's nipples or go down on her is like nothing else.
Turning him on turns you and her on, and it makes for an extremely sexy atmosphere.
2. A girl just gets it.
While you're busy slowly running your tongue up and down his member, she can be down in your pussy giving it the best licking of your life. Don't get me wrong, men can be fantastic at eating out, but another woman is just so intuned with another woman's body that it's definitely some next level satisfaction.
Just don't forget to return the favor.
3. It's fucking, love making, and a giggle session all at once.
Gently running your tongue down her neck and over her clavicle with lust and desire. Your man going down on her while finger banging the hell out of you. A spontaneous bit of laughter when one of you lets out a queef from all the fun you're having.
Threesomes are an array of pleasures, all combined into this amazing experience.
4. No one is left wanting.
No matter how you divvy up the "duties", threesomes almost guarantee that everyone walks away satisfied. Guy blows his load before one of you have achieved that O? No worries, there's another person in that bed that can help out while the other party recovers.
And who knows, the stimulation of watching might just get everyone going for round two!
5. It can open your eyes to new things you like.
Everyone has their own ideas of what is pleasurable, their own techniques, and styles. Bringing a third person in into the bedroom lets you see another person's take on all of it.
Whether it's the different way she gives a hand job, a special thing she does with her tongue, or even introducing her favorite toy (can you say 'Strap-on'?!), finding new and sexy ways to play is never a bad thing.
6. It can bring you closer to your partner.
While threesomes can be done casually, I've always found the best times were when I had them with a partner who I was in a loving, committed relationship with.
As long as you are both secure and open in your relationship, having this kind of experience together can actually bring you closer together. And it lets your partner see a side of you that he wasn't aware of before.
7. There's someone available to go get snacks!
Ever been in the middle of it and needed a sip of water, badly? Or how about right afterwards, and that bowl of ice cream sounds so great but the thought of getting up to get it sounds daunting. Well, you might have to rock, paper, scissor it (and scissoring might be the preferred method of choice, wink wink), but there are now three of you to work out who grabs what instead of you just laying there, dying of thirst.
Surely, there are a lot of finer points to consider when contemplating having a threesome. The who, the what, the when, the why – all of it needs to be communicated clearly with your partner.
But when it's between three consenting, mature adults, it can be one hell of a wild ride.
Life's too short not to have a little fun every once and awhile.
