Weddings are amazing. They are (hopefully) once in a lifetime events that you get to plan however you want! Every. Single. Detail. Fun, it's fun.
1. OMG Pinterest.
This is your new best friend and your new worst enemy. At the beginning of wedding planning it's a glorious land of opportunity. About halfway in, that all changes. Pins turn from "oh, how cute" and "that would save us so much money" to "I am not spending all day putting those together" and "not worth the $20 saved."
2. Do I really need to be on speaking terms with my family?
If you have a small, impossibly perfect tv family, you may ignore this one. If you are like everyone else, this is a constant source of tension in the wedding planning. Who will you offend by not inviting? or inviting? Do we really need to have a hall that holds 200 people? Try not to punch anyone, it will be all right.
3. That costs how much?
This depends greatly on where you live and how many people you invite. According to www.costofwedding.com, "Couples typically spend between $19,833 and $33,055." Noteworthy is that "flowers and decorations" alone cost an average of "$1,579". "Venue, catering and rentals" topping the charts at an average of "$11,784". So budget accordingly, and do you really need all those flowers in the centerpieces?
4. Does every couple go through this?
The answer is basically yes. Every couple strains about something with wedding planning. There are a million details and decisions to be made, extended family and money is involved. Something is going to drive you crazy. Try to remember why you want this wedding in the first place; you know, love and stuff.
5. Bridal magazines are useless.
I, like so many newly engaged, rushed right out and bought 3 different bridal magazines. They are just pictures of wedding dresses and maybe like 2 articles. All the information in them can be found with a google search. Waste of money, don't bother.
6. Do I have to make a registry? What about cash?
This is a more and more modern age. Chances are high that the couple getting married already live together. And if they are any kind of adult they already have plates and pots. Consider registering for non-home items such as movies or books or even gift cards. Another good option is www.honeyfund.com where people can help you pay for your honeymoon! Guests can give you money for show tickets, hotel, dining, or a couples massage. Whatever you need.
7. Can't we just elope?
Yes. This is an option. But likely your family and friends would be hurt not to be a part of your special day. And when else will it be acceptable to throw a $20,000 party for your friends and family? Plus, you get to be the center of attention for a whole day!
