When in a relationship you should be with someone that
makes you feel loved and makes you genuinely, unconditionally
happy. Nothing less. Here are a few signs to make you aware
of who you shouldn’t be in love with….
1] You should be able to be yourself, completely. If you can’t
dance and sing in the car along to your favorite song without
feeling like you are being judged they are probably not the one.
If you can’t do the things you love to do because of his/her opinions,
They’re probably not the one.
2] If every encounter leaves you burnt out and feeling a sense
of guilt or relief when he/she leaves,
They’re probably not the one.
3] If the thought of spending the day/evening with your partner
doesn’t leave you with butterflies and a smile from ear to ear,
They’re probably not the one.
4] Arguments.. Arguments are an important part of a relationship.
Everyone has them, but if you are feeling totally dominated by the
other person instead of gaining/learning something from the argument,
They’re probably not the one.
5] If you can’t picture your future with them.. Whether it be kids,
a family, marriage, or just a lifetime with them,
They’re probably not the one.
6] If you have to be very cautious and feel the need to tip toe around
your partner.. If you are not comfortable with talking to them or doing something
because you’re worried about how they will feel/what they will say… If you have
to over-think things before you present it to them,
They’re probably not the one.
7] If you’re relationship is at a standstill, and hasn’t moved forward for
quite some time,
They’re probably not the one.
8] If you don’t want to show them off to your friends and family..
If you’re too embarrassed by their actions so you segregate
yourself from everyone else,
They’re probably not the one.
The one you want to spend the rest of your life with should
support you in everything you do. They should want to fit in
well with your family/friends because it makes you happy.
They should always want to push and build you up rather than
pull and tear you down. Protect your heart. You only have one.