A Letter To The Guy I Thought I Loved

To the guy I thought I loved,

I’m sorry.

I’m sorry for leading you on and for using you and your feelings. I know that I made you think that our relationship was stronger than it really was. I constantly put you in an awkward situation when you had to constantly question where we were in our relationship and how strong it really was. Especially at the end of our relationship, I wasn’t as emotionally invested as you were. I’m sorry for making you fight for a relationship that was doomed from the start.

To the guyI thought I loved,

Thank you.

Thank you for all the great memories. Even though we’re broken up now, I enjoyed getting to know you and spending a lot of time together. I know that you always tried to see the good in me, even when I couldn’t see it myself. Our relationship has helped me find who I am and what I need, and you helped bring me to the place where I understand that my emotions matter more than the concept of having a relationship. Thank you for being a great guy.

To the guy I thought I loved,

Please move on.

I know you’re going to find a girl who truly loves you and appreciates everything you have to offer. This girl will be able to offer you more than I ever could. You have so many great qualities, and it hurts me to think that this experience with me will impact how you perceive all future relationships. Please don’t think of me and our failed relationship the next time you are presented with an opportunity to love someone.

To the guy I thought I loved,

I will always remember you and the time when our paths crossed. I hope that one day you can learn to forgive me and we can go back to being friends.

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Stephanie Zhang

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